2007-02-15 23:33:11 · 21 answers · asked by KAO 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because i lot of women like the bad boy type i guess, its a little more adventure, you never know what to expect from one day to the next, i suppose its like a thrill,
2007-02-15 23:38:16 · answer #1 · answered by terryodell42 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't "fall for the ones we don't want". You fall for the ones that aren't good for you. Some people are just attracted to train wrecks. You have to consciously make the choice of not choosing those people and giving the good ones more of a chance. You have to steer clear of the naughty ones that have caught your eye in the past so that you can have a long, meaningful relationship with someone who will appreciate you. You will fall for the ones you want, you just have to make sure its not the wrong sort of person.
2007-02-15 23:40:56 · answer #2 · answered by cupid6980 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look, I do not grasp your question well because I think that we do not 'fall for the ones we dont want' but we 'fall for the ones we do not expect to fall for'.
Like me, right now I am falling for a fabulous, beautiful girl whom I have never considered before. I have never what a kind-hearted and amazing girl she is until the past nine months, sadly.
Yes, I guess it is what we call love and maybe researchers are still working on the mystery of the thing called Love.
2007-02-15 23:41:09 · answer #3 · answered by Hero 2001 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now that's a damn good question! Psychologists say our relationship choices are influenced by several factors, all of them based on childhood experiences. Two, among other, theories are: 1) We unconsciously look in others for behavioral patterns and traits of our parents (traits which are not always good) and 2) We look in others for the traits we feel we lack. We then project those unto them (whether they have them or not) and fall in love with the image of our fulfilled, complete self. In other words we see what we want to see. A combination is also possible I suppose...
2007-02-15 23:44:08 · answer #4 · answered by Dennis K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mmm, I have a very philosophical uncle who believes that we fall in love with people for what they give to us, so if we have someone in our life that is treating us bad and hurting us, it is because we feel that is what we deserve, which is why we also keep falling for the same type of person. Our happiness lies within our own hands and the answer is to look inside you and find out what it is that is missing or that needs healing, because you need to truly love yourself. This isn't necessarily my view, but it is something to think about.
2007-02-15 23:49:12 · answer #5 · answered by Sweety 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 05:51:36 · answer #6 · answered by kampfer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what u consiter "WRONG ONES",?? maybe you got your fools mixed up?? some say that ladies LOVE OUTLAWS"!! and some woman love straight guys!! yet some girls like geeks!!
but regardless of which catagory you may fall under, make sure they got a job, make sure they dont do dope!! (abuse it that is).
make sure hes real about life, and doesnt have his heat up his *** all the time, and make sure hes funny, funny is good!! just make sure hes not all into himself, cause thats all a selfish person he thinks about,himself!!! and the first chance he has he'll leave you in the dust and not look back!! my advice is find a real gangster/outlaw, just make sure hes a real one and not a fake!!!!!!!!!!!!! good luck
2007-02-15 23:50:35 · answer #7 · answered by Gangsta Of Luv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Curiosity. Wanting the challenge. Likes a bit of "danger" or "excitement".
In reality, some women like the aggressive type - to show "no fear" in given situations.
A certain bravado or "chip on the shoulder".
Other hand, they guys they pass over usually have better jobs, more stable, better financial stability, etc..
Usually they disqualify these guys with better tangibles because of superficial reasons, ie. not aggressive enough, square, etc...
I guess it depends on the woman - if she's tired of going to countless encounters that all dead-end with the "wrong ones".
One love...........................
2007-02-15 23:49:07 · answer #8 · answered by HottNikkels 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the wrong ones say everything right and the right ones say everything wrong.
2007-02-16 00:08:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because we thought that was what we wanted. and now we realize that we wanted all the wrong things. we haven't seen the person behind the facade.
2007-02-15 23:38:36 · answer #10 · answered by nic_chan35 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋