ok me and my girl broke up, she says she cant do it, she still says she loves me every once and a while, she says it when she feels it, sometimes she dont feel it. I know she does. When we are together she dont want me to leave and when we are apart she dont want anything to do with me. She keeps tellin me to move on and i dont need her. I truely love her, she just ended an engagement. She has been talking to another guy, i thought thats why we broke up but its not, she dont even talk to him barely now, she said he is nothing. Its been 10 days, just out the blue sometimes she will start an argument. She says really really hurtful things. I know give it time and she will miss me, i know if its meant to be it will, i feel she is pushin me away because she thinks its best for me. There is something she wont tell me. She also says im too overprotective, i was but i havnt been for like a month, people call her and im nosy always wanting to know who it is.
2007-02-15 23:12:17 · 10 answers · asked by importracer_6969 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldnt bother to ask, but when she ignores me to talk to them i would like to know, i think i deserve that. I gave her everything. She says she dont think we will get back together, she wants to but she dont think i will change. Help, what can i do, hurry cuz i may loose her
2007-02-15 23:13:10 · update #1
I hate to say it pal, but it sounds like she's enjoying her freedom. Whatever you did when you had her must have been pretty bad in her eyes. It could also be that she's just not the right one for you.
Show some dignity and confidence in yourself. You deserve someone who is going to feel the same way and not put you through hell to win her. You need to start sucking it up a bit and realize that maybe she's not good enough for you...
2007-02-15 23:19:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure of what you want because you might get it!
You have to gamble it. Get out and find a new love interest. She will either be crawing back or she will go with the other guy.
If she cares, nothing will make her come back as the threat of losing you. Do not be a door mat. If she knows she's got you in her back pocket, you are always going to be the 5th wheel. You gotta risk it.
2007-02-16 07:23:52 · answer #2 · answered by emiliosailez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesnt seem wife material. Dude, dont you want someone who will love and cherish you? Not someone who will say hurtful things, cheat on you, and make your life miserable. Im sorry you had to break off the engagment, she is def not stable yet. And she needs time away. Good luck with your future and find a girl who really wants to be with you.
2007-02-16 07:16:44 · answer #3 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is grieving and so will you soon..Take this time and move on
It will make you suffer in the end..Consider a three month separation to see if there is substance for romance or friendship for the matter,,,You must be clear and strong.
2007-02-16 07:20:58 · answer #4 · answered by debbi67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-08-18 14:02:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must really love her and you need to show it so you have to get out there and buy some flowers for her and talk to her over a romantic dinner.
2007-02-16 07:18:31 · answer #6 · answered by spongebob 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
girls do that just remember the things you used to do that you guys felt love in
2007-02-16 07:18:13 · answer #7 · answered by T-Money 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy her a new car and a house,that will get her attention.
2007-02-16 07:18:44 · answer #8 · answered by dcam47 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on
2007-02-16 07:22:51 · answer #9 · answered by it's HG !! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just isn't happy....deal.
2007-02-16 07:17:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋