I have fallen in love with a girl on the internet who has a kid. But, Im 26 single and no kids.
She's 27. I have a whole life ahead of me. What do you think? shall I marry her? and adopt her kid? (I've got the Indian skin and she's white)
Also she has an ex-boyfriend (black) from South Africa, whom threatning all of her boyfriends. Because of this African issue... Im scared of HIV as well. Should I?
I love her. But all these issues? shall I go on?
She always say she can't start a new relationship now. But I need her. Then she said she can go out for a coffee. Shall I go?
please anyone.. help me...
2007-02-15 23:04:56 · 10 answers · asked by Toyota Lover 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Too many insecurities on your part; stay away from this woman.
2007-02-15 23:10:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see that you're really having a hard time deciding. Will the invite for a coffee thing the first time you're gonna meet her? Well why not just go so there you can properly weigh your options. See how things will go? It's really different when getting to know a person through the internet. Trust me. I myself almost fell in lovewith a guy who turned out to be 15 years older than me with 2 kids!! Anyways, it's a different story.. Know what?? Just go! It's just a coffee, no big thingy! Meet her personally and just go with the flow! ;)
2007-02-15 23:28:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bucko? You've got to grab a hold of what real Love is. Either it's there. Or it ain't. "For Better or worse". It's the Marriage Vows. But it's all about commitment. Are you Man enough to Love, every part of her Life? I think you owe he some respect, to at least be honest with her. If you really do "need" her? You need her Child too. Straight up! Outta here!
2007-02-15 23:11:12 · answer #3 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out for coffee. Get to know each other. If you are willing to be the father for her child, then Good for you! But dont move to fast and just let things happen the way they should. Dont worry about her past or her kids, if you love this woman, you will deal with it all.
2007-02-15 23:09:42 · answer #4 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly believe you do not deserve her, if you love her then all that should not matter,.1st, you are a man forget the ex and stand for the woman you say you love,2nd not everyone from Africa has AIDS..........you are so ignorant and misleading.......go for a test and that problem goes away And 3rd. i hope she says no to you for the AIDS remark it is people like you that makes AIDS victims be Victimized
2007-02-15 23:23:54 · answer #5 · answered by cross 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can go for coffee, she won't like u and won't want to marry u - u sound as a whimp. if u loved her all these things wouldn't matter. u re just a loser who is lonely and u want to clinge to anything that moves
2007-02-15 23:09:05 · answer #6 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt suggest you to marry her because if she had a kid with another man and broke up with him just think that she can do it do you as well and then no girl would want to marry a man with a past
2007-02-15 23:16:11 · answer #7 · answered by spongebob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would agree to both get tested for HIV......then take it from there.
2007-02-15 23:09:41 · answer #8 · answered by Dairy Fairy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats ok, what matters is you love her.that is the most important thing
2007-02-15 23:08:17 · answer #9 · answered by ahhhlain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont stay any more!
2007-02-15 23:22:41 · answer #10 · answered by afsaneh_000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋