Im a young female in my late twenties. i was recently rejected by a guy. who i was really into. i only told him because i thought the feelin was mutual...."Wrong"....based on his body language around me, and the fact that he was always starred alot.
when confronted his arrogant *** totally denied the ****....making the comment that he didnt look at me any differently than he did anyone else. an outsider even teased and asked was something up witt us. she noticed him starring & told me i didnt even notice that time. im worried cause i've picked up weight. let's just say im self conticous about it. so naturally i think this this is his reasoning. it hurt so bad it motivated my *** to start taking a kick boxing class to help me loose weight.....lol!! keep in mind this is something i've always wanted to do. i allowed the word procrastinate to over powered me. however every since this happened it gave me the extra push. majority of the guys i no ages 24-30 hate big gyrls. Question.......?
2007-02-15 23:00:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hate big gryls. If a girl is large not like "roseanne or monique" Still on the the larger side and she wear trendy clothes, sexyhair, makeup and is maintained aside of the weight issue. are u attracted or is it still a turn off cause of the weight............................................................?
2007-02-15 23:06:22 · update #1
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Nah, it's not like that. Everybody has their personal likes/dislikes. There's nothing we can do about that. The point being, sounds like you are trying to adjust yourself (size, etc) to accommodate this guy when in reality, you don't know what he feels or thinks.
I think before you do that, have a talk with him to gauge his feelings or interest.
If taking classes and losing weight helps your self-esteem and confidence - by all means go for what you know. But, don't do it for ANYONE but yourself.
What's going to happen is you'll twist yourself into a pretzel AND HE STILL MAY LEAVE. You sound like you have a big heart, so don't fall for that.
If he stares, maybe he "wants" you. Maybe not.
The only way to CONFIRM, is to talk to him about how he feels and what he's feeling.
You'll be fair and giving him an opportunity to air out.
One love...............................
2007-02-16 00:07:01 · answer #1 · answered by HottNikkels 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as your at a healthy weight, it shouldn't matter. Excercise is good, it keeps you toned. If he's looking at you and denies it then he's allready attached or he's wondering what you would be like in bed and not looking for a meaningfull relationship or both. Ps; Big girls have more fun, have a better sence of humor and can carry on an inteligent conversation. I f the guys you know hate a person because of the're weight instead of what's inside, you need to look for different friends that aren't so shallow.
2007-02-16 00:12:04 · answer #2 · answered by Dan ( 2 ) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats ok for me
2007-02-15 23:15:53 · answer #3 · answered by ahhhlain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋