How can you tell if a guy is good or bad in bed just by talking to him?

Question

I like guys that are good at being dominant and in control

Answer 1

Eye contact is a biggie, especially when you say something provocative.

Some guys don't have the right words, but that doesn't usually say much about his habits in the bedroom. Usually you can judge more about the way he composes himself, mannerisms, etc...but even then it's hard to tell.

Answer 2

Don't you think that there are more important qualities to look for other then sex? How about someone who will be faithful and honest, love you, and treat you with respect. Sounds like you do not want that in a person. I feel sorry for you at your age at what you are going to become as you grow older. I will keep you in my thoughts, and wish you the best in life. One cannot ride a horse but so much before one has to retire the horse out to pasture. You are too young to be messing up your life, please think about it. I am only trying to help and open your eyes. You are only going to end up being used once word gets out that you like the type of people you are *hanging* with. Once you go so far it is hard to turn back, and there may be no one there for you once you wake up. Also you are going to get what you ask for so be carefull for what you ask.

Answer 3

A guy will describe in detail the things he will do. Most guys who aren't good in bed don't know how to go into details. I have talked to girls in the past about sexual experiences in detail, and after the conversation, they always wanted to try me out.
Just see if he can go into details

Answer 4

You can't always tell. If you talked to me you'd think I was a pussycat but you'd be wrong.
Men who are aggressive outside the bedroom often want to be dominated in bed. And vice versa.

Answer 5

apprently i read this in a magazine if he pushes elevator buttons contionasly to get the doors to shut faster then hes bad in bed (rushes and gets it all over to quickly) take him in a lift and talk to him there i think as a rules guys that seem relaxed and easy going are the best in bed compared to the aggressive figety ones. also check hes got clean finger nails

Answer 6

it's how the way they talk! if he talks boastfully then he isn't good but if he'll just answer to your question in a simple but catchy way then he's good! And ask him questions like: how many girlfriends do you have when you we're still in college? have you done it to all of them? if men has a lot of experience then majority of them are great in bed. But some men are wise and tricky... try having sex with him you'll be the judge!

Answer 7

His confidence level! for sure, and If he's naturally agressive...for example does he decides where to eat, he takes control of the conversation sometimes, does he make the first moves. I like that type too! I like a man who doesn't take "no" for an answer(if he's cute!) good luck on your quest

Answer 8

well first of all let me set the senerio!! first off we meet at a club as i ask you to dance, of course you find me very attractive, as we talk our conversation leads to some sexy talk and it gets kinda hot!! well as you and i get more and more in depth about what we would like to do,but it would be more about your needs then about my wants!! ide let u know how all i want to do is satisfy your hunger for me, and gurantee your satisfaction!! ide tell you some secrets about my love making that would have you antisipating my very touch!!
but in order to have this you would have to
let me do all the work!! believe me im all lips and tounge!! ilove kissin, lickin,and suckin, to please u is my forte, and im the only one to make it happen!! you see a good lover will make it clear its all about you, and to make u *** once/twice/three times, would make for a wonder ful evening!! together making fireworks go off
like it was the 4th of july!! do you think im a good lover bye what isaid?? wel im not good, i strive to be great!!! muah!!

Answer 9

You can't. And be careful, if he's dominant and controlling he's real close to be being abusive.

Answer 10

Try phone sex with him and ask what he would like to do while in bed how he will treat you , make your comments and when you decide to sleep with him then he will have an idea of what you like.Enjoy it.