Seriously Confused?

Question

I have a Bf but we have been arguing alot lately, we often argue as we both have strong personalities. But I do love him dearly. He means the world to me.
The problem is I can't stop thinking about someone else. I find myself thinking about him all the time. I had a sexual dream about him last night and now I can't get it out of my mind. He has a gf, he knows that I like him and I know that he likes me, but it seems so complicated. We flirt like crazy and have nearly kissed a few times. It is obvious we like eachother but I don't know if I should go ahead and tell him my exact feelings. I am confused as to if the 'Grass is Greener'? I have felt like this for a year or so now, but have previously managed to ignore my feelings.

Answer 1

When one is having trouble in a current relationship they often look elsewhere. He obviously doesn't mean the world to you if you're having thoughts and "almost kissed" this other guy. You don't know your "exact" feelings to tell this other guy. Why don't you take a break with your current boyfriend - tell him you both need time to date other people - and then see what happens.

Answer 2

First you need to break the ties with your boyfriend now. He doesnt deserve someone who is not willing to be 100% commited in body, mind, and soul.
Second. You shouldnt expect that other boy to break ties with his girl. Your feelings for each other are just feelings sounds like. Dont let it ruin your relationships you have now . Or you will regret it.

Answer 3

U are used to his company and therefore the strong feelings. U just have to move on instead of breaking lives. Move on to another city if possible another country and trust me, u will get over with him faster than u think

Answer 4

you said that you love your boyfriend dearly not passionatly or madly deeply truely the kind of woarding you would use for a well liked dog. do u still fancy your boyfriend if you can answer this question i dont think you will be so confused