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we've been out together a few times and i think i've fallen hard for him,so it's too late for me to back out now. i want to be more than friends, but i don't know what's going on his side.
i don't know if he's still hung up on his ex. we hardly get to meet becoz we both have jobs and it's hard to match our schedule. when we go out, we share food and drinks, he shows his concern for me, he holds my hand sometimes(when i'm cold, when we're crossing the road, when it's raining)...he praises me in front of his friends but when his friends asked if i'm his gf, he shugs and laughs. he pokes my sides and is tries to make me laugh.he keeps his ex pic and my pic in his hp. he's jealous when i'm going out with other guiys. i don't know if we're friends or more than that. if we've never talk about being together, is he mine? how do i tell him i like him? what do i start off saying?

2007-02-15 22:37:36 · 7 answers · asked by s89 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

7 answers

It sounds like there's already something more there. But you need to see how much of a factor his ex still plays. Did they have a bad falling out? Does he still talk to her often? Even though you should continue to pursue a relationship, you need to know those things so that he doesn't use you as a rebound.

With that said, I'd say go for it! You don't have much to lose and everything to gain. Find the right time to be in a serious discussion. Tell him a bit about how you're feeling and give him just as much opportunity to speak. If you give up your feelings in bits and pieces, you'll be able to get a good read from him if he feels the same way, before you end up spilling everything out all at once. That's how you'll know how far to take it.

2007-02-15 22:42:01 · answer #1 · answered by SirCharles 6 · 0 0

Well, he may or may not like you. But he mostly does. You ask him about it. Don't easily frown, cry or react already. You just might break your friendship with him. If he says that he likes you, it may or may not be hard to say it...but you have to tell him how you feel so that he may be in ease.

2007-02-15 22:46:12 · answer #2 · answered by Kaka 3 · 0 0

He definitely likes you. Try to talk to him as much as possible, and be kind to him. Ask him out, if your courageous enough.

2007-02-15 22:40:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

1. Someone who sees the best in you.

If you were lucky enough to grow up with healthy parents, you have experienced the feeling of having someone who has always looked at your good qualities. Many of us missed that experience. You will be a lucky person if you have found a mate who is always looking at your 'silver lining'. Too often today people are more than willing to judge you by your errors, not by your potential.

2. Someone who gives you the benefit of the doubt.

There are so many times in your life when you need that little edge, that little opportunity to take just that extra step. It can seem as if your efforts are going nowhere and although you want to keep moving forward, there are so many negatives staring you in the face. That person who knows things could go either way for you but takes that leap to believe you will make it is the person who is more valuable to you than gold.

3. Someone who watches over you.

You need a guardian angel who is there, waiting to catch you if you fall, ready to help you when you stumble, ready to pave the way for you when you cannot get moving. There are people who love you who do just that. There are people who do not make a big deal out of saving your bacon. Do you know who they are?

4. Someone to watch you back.

You never know these days who is waiting to catch you off guard, to make sure you don't do well, to sabotage your efforts. You like to think that people will rejoice when you

do well. Many don't. If someone 'has your back' and runs interference for you when you are trying to run the gauntlet through life, give that person a big 'thanks' plus lots of your attention.

5. The person who tells you we all make mistakes.

You hate to be around that judgemental, harsh person who reminds you, 'I told you so', when things so south. You don't need anyone else telling you what you already know. On the other hand there are people who just let you know that the only way any of us learn is through experience. When you have really ended up in the dumper and blew it, stay close to the one who knows that the person who hasn't done anything wrong hasn't done anything much.

6. The person who gives you advice from the heart, not from the head.

When the situation gets rough and some big decisions need to be made, it's fine to have people outline the pros and cons of a problem and give you 'head' answers. But if you need a nudge sometimes to tip the scales, you always listen to this person who knows you must do what will let you live with yourself and have self respect.

7. The person who won't be the 'yes man' who agrees with you

No one who loves you is going to give you the green light and tell you to let er rip if it's clearly going to be bad for you. It's sad that often you surround yourself with people who tell you what you want to hear. The one who loves you will tell you to get help for a drinking or drugging problem, to stop the extramarital affair, and to be a good and decent person.

8. Someone who tells you to knock back, smell the roses, and enjoy life part of the time.

If you are a person who is a real performer and doer, there are likely to be people around you who enjoy the fruits of your labor and want you to do even more. Sometimes you may even see yourself as only valuable when you are giving, doing, and performing. Listen to the person who tells you that life is short and you need breaks and some R&R. That is the person who is looking out for you and your health.

9. The one who smiles at you and means it.

The person who loves you looks at you with eyes that smile and mean it. Too many people give you that slick smile, that quick pat on the back, and then forget that you even exist.

The eyes are the windows of our soul and you can read into a person's smile if it is saying, 'You are a fine person and I want to be with you as long as possible'. Don't fall for any phony smile that attracts you off in another direction, only to leave you stranded and alone.

10. Someone who sees you as beautiful, inside and out.

You know you aren't perfect. There are only too many examples of you looking around and thinking that you have flaws and aren't like the people on television. The person who loves you sees you through eyes of acceptance with no conditions. As you gain a few pounds and your hair gets thin, the person who sees you as attractive, inviting, and appealing is the person who loves you all the way, no strings or demands.

Nowadays, it's really important to know who loves you. Everything in our society is throw away, and many people have carried that over into the most important relationships in their lives. Think hard and look carefully. People who love you , like comfortable clothes, are easy on the heart, mind, and soul.

Hope dis will help u.......

2007-02-15 22:43:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

u are me.....confront him about it no matter what no matter who he is and if ur scared of the friendship being lost ...just do it.....it took me so much time to do it and when i finnally toled him how i felt it was too late

2007-02-15 22:42:08 · answer #5 · answered by bubbles101 2 · 0 0

He probably likes you just ask him.

2007-02-16 00:00:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

ask him!!!!

2007-02-15 22:40:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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