sex before marrige?

Question

im 16 ive got a christian background infact im a christian i know it says in the bible you shouldent unless your married but me n my bf love eachother and its so easy and tempting! what should i do? x

Answer 1

i think it is not good

Answer 2

I'M CATHOLIC... believe in my religion very much... but i can;t say I'm a virgin either... take it from my experience intimacy play a huge role in a relationship. you might like a person but then find out later that you weren't compatible "in the bedroom"

So do what feels right besides this is the 21st century and those rules in the bible are nearly 2000 years old, things have change. one must remember that they did get married at the age of 12 and so forth.

the only advice i can give, is don't be pressured into it do it because you want to and because it feels right. be careful not to loose your innocents for the wrong reason cause when its gone its gone. Don't abuse sex or eventually it will mean nothing and that to me is a sin.

Answer 3

Unwed sexual relations are very bad. Even if they marry together, they will find nothing new. If they couldn't and marry others, it will amount to cheating the spouse. Sometimes despite such marriage, the old love relations continue and make the marital lives a hell, leading to a divorce. Divorces break two families as well and put the children to untold miseries. Better to wait till marriageable age, marry and lead joyful marital life.

All unwed sexual activities (pre/post/extra marital), homosexual acts, & other perverted sexual acts are specifically forbidden in Islam. In Islam, it is great sin and heinous crime against government/society punishable with publicly lashing/ death by pelting stones.

Muslims firmly believe and strictly practice the teachings/commands of their holy book Quran & their Prophet, which is their Code of Life at all times/places. They have the written, clear and unambiguous teachings to guide righteous or wrongs, pious or evil, fair or unfair, etc. They follow them blindly in matters of responsibilities, liabilities, rights, daily life, marriage, private & public relation, business, trade, earning & spending, etc. etc.

Answer 4

This is what country has becomes. There is no hurrys for this sex. You shoulds not trust most guys, they only wants sex at thats age... us womens must be strong. If sex happens and cause pregness than there is a new life in this worlds. this not about the Bilbe...its abouts common sense..you must weigh the risks...which there are indeed many.

Answer 5

ARE U CRAZZZYYY ??? im too 16 and teenage is the most crucial time in ones life so stop urself's from being tempted. face the reality u r not even 18 . if u want to know how to stop ur selfs from tempting . contact me my ID is [e-mail] ok take care BYE

Answer 6

you r wise and know what to do. Infact you know the answer but want to get self satisfaction by taking the opinion of others, because u have decided to do what you want.
**** Luck for taking a decision

Answer 7

Avoid being alone together till you get control of your emotions.
If you feel it's wrong now, then you'll feel guilt and it will be an unpleseant experience in the end. Rely on your convictions Don't let him pressure you either.

Answer 8

its upto ur thinking.if u really love ur gf and ur gf too loves u truly then doing sex or not is a matter of ur conciousness.u hv to decide that u r doing sex for luv or luv for sex.my opinion that if u r really secure abt ur luv then u cannot affected by sex before marriage.

Answer 9

it sounds like u have second thoughts and doubts about doing it...so rather wait till u r 100% sure u want to other wise there will be regrets...once u pop u cant stop, there is no turning back then....

Answer 10

Do people really save themselves for marriage still? If you two want to do it with each other, than do it. This isnt the 1800's ya know. Your not going to "hell". But if you do, use protection and birth controll.

Answer 11

You can either follow Bible or Yourself/Your conscience