every guy I've kissed has stuck his tongue in my mouth and that just grosses me out. Why not spit in my mouth? What is up with guy's and the tongues. I'm just looking for mere luscious lips touching, but it has to get all nasty with tongues touching. The last guy I kissed was even a jerk about it. When I kind of kept my teeth together because I did't like it, he's like "NO, PULL BACK UR TEETH AND LET YOUR TONGUE TOUCH MINE." I didn't want to make him mad, so I obeyed him. "He's like good job" and began rubbing his tongue up against mine. I am so grossed out by this and it's not like it would really have mattered if I said 'no' because he already had his tongue in my mouth so why not make him happy. What I hate is guy's will do it without letting you know even if you don't want their nasty tongue in your mouth. I have no idea where they've had their tongue and it's something pretty out there, but they stick their tongue in your mouth anyway. Should I just kiss with my lips tightened?
2007-02-15 22:22:44 · 8 answers · asked by Crancrab1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DO NOT KISS A GO. A GOs do not brush their teeth and have bad breath.
2007-02-15 22:27:49 · answer #1 · answered by Ex Head 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a guy. I am married and did see your question. My wife is kinda the same way. I feel bad now cuz I kinda did the same thing at first. I didn't get mad though, I just didn't feel like she wanted to open up to me but at that time we were not married. If you don't want to do that don't. One day you will find the right person who everytime you kiss it won't matter. Until then don't let anyone put you in a uncomfortable situation. But one thing, don't be scared to open up and try new things. When I say that I mean anything like trying new foods and going skydiving. That is if you think you would like it and it is not immoral and ect.
2007-02-15 22:33:38 · answer #2 · answered by david r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, its ordinary to be worried and uncertain, and maximum women have been in this situtation, and to be trustworthy, I have no theory what form of advice to offer you on making it greater valuable, different than, basically permit him do it, then once you sense mushy to 'positioned the strikes on him' do it. wait it out, and you will decide a thank you to do it and how it works for you, that's what could make a boyfriend happy.(you being mushy)
2016-10-02 05:50:34 · answer #3 · answered by kampfer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first let me tell you that you may be really too young to enjoy a more adult kiss! once you get older and more intune with your self, you will see that it is not that gross! really! you just need to give it time, trust me it will grow on you. but first give your slef some time to grow up, but not too fast, enjoy you childhoood, you have the rest of your life to act like an adult, so enjoy ot while you can.
2007-02-15 22:34:03 · answer #4 · answered by scheneista w 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
let them know before hand that you dont like it so that they know and wont try it on you or force you to do it, i think thats the best thing to do and if they dont respect your wishes they arent worth it and just move on till some guy does respect that you dont like it
2007-02-15 22:32:41 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably let them know that you don't like it before. Some people assume that everyone likes frenching, (like me until now) until they hear otherwise.
2007-02-15 22:27:55 · answer #6 · answered by Bizzaregrl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to tell you but this is how the kissing is done when you are old enough
Which im guessin you are not
2007-02-15 22:30:34 · answer #7 · answered by SAgirl 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
its called french kissing........
2007-02-15 22:27:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋