Ok so say YOU started seein some1 & u connected right from the start u thought they were perfect & visa versa. But the other person wasn't lookin 4 a proper relationship at that stage. (I know some of u will say that is bulls***t! but it does happen I hav felt like that b4 & so have a few of my friends, as u just feel that u don't want to hav to answer to anyone & u just don't want to feel tied down at that stage no matter how well u get on wit that person! But what if in the process of u 2 bein 2gether that person messed u about due to the fact that they were confused about what they wanted due to thier inability to commit at the time & in the process hurt u. Would YOU when movin on intend to never b with that person again? Due 2 the fact that they messed u about & didn't put u 1st priority? & if u had gone ur seperate ways & after time the other person HAD realised how much of a quality & asset U are & wanted U bac would you giv them another chance?or would u decline & jus b friends?
2007-02-15 21:46:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have come to find recently, that things like inability to commit are part of the reason to be or not to be with someone. If they won't be with you for a reason like that, then they will go their own way anyway, its not the right time for either of you.
But what are you gonna do while they are doing something else? Sit around thinking about them? Hell no! Just take one step at a time. Put them in the maybe another day box, and give someone else a chance.
No one is perfect and when someone breaks it off with you you start wanting to tell them their faults and exaggerating their faults. Forget about them for the mean time.
Its not about them realising what a quality asset you are, its not a relfection on you that someone is not ready for the kind of relationship you are looking for.
If I were single and that person came back into my life that you described I would see how it made me feel being around them and maybe go out with them.
LIfes too short
2007-02-15 21:57:36 · answer #1 · answered by Oz Billy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes timing is off. It does happen. When u fall for someone, not necessary that the other person will fall for u too at the same time, if at all.
So u r lucky the other person realized that when u left what she was missing. Sometimes the value of a person is realized when he is away, for good or whateva.
If u still feel the same abut that person, no harm getting back together as long as "messing" is over and done with!
2007-02-16 05:56:09 · answer #2 · answered by saltnsaffron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it depence how the other person loved "u".
and how bad u fight for this person to get him/her back.be shure that u understand what u did to this person and how bad u hurted her/him...but give it time and be patient and show how serious and hounest u are to get this person back,and even when u get pushed away,when he,she means hounestly so much to u,then dont give up and try as long as possible...and when she,he wont come back then it should be a big lesson for and should make u see how bad u hurted this person,well u should now thast already before u try to get him/her back.
good luck
2007-02-16 06:18:18 · answer #3 · answered by lady in black 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would still be friends with that person and look for someone who wanted to be in a serious relationship
2007-02-16 05:54:37 · answer #4 · answered by Rocky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can be more than friends if he really realizes that you're hot. but gve him the biggest consequences of his life!!! like running around campus naked, etc., and if he's not into it, then he's not worth the risk.
2007-02-16 05:52:06 · answer #5 · answered by je_ivy_an 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'll decline n jus b frends
2007-02-16 05:51:08 · answer #6 · answered by dj_ishoney 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now I know why you use J-O for an I.D.
2007-02-16 05:57:34 · answer #7 · answered by dadgonewild 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would hit one more time and bounce
2007-02-16 05:51:07 · answer #8 · answered by titto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋