... family... and i can see that he puts these on his priority list. I am considered very attractive I am 21 yrs old and he is 31, do many things for him and try to make his life as comfy as possible to no avail. what can i do to change this behaviour... cos I am losing myself
2007-02-15 21:41:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This sounds weird...maybe he is cheating on you? I don't want to be negative, but maybe he is not out with friends but with a girl? Any way...There is a large gap between the two of you, and both of you are at different levels....See a counselor and then if it does not work out...Divorce him...You are still young! Don't waste your life waiting for him...
2007-02-15 21:48:41 · answer #1 · answered by diamond_moon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about how you feel. He may not know he is ignoring you or putting you last.
I would not make his life so comfy.......if you do too much all the time he will get use to it and take advantage. It does not mean as much when it is normal for you to do so much. Instead of doing so much for him let him do something for you. If you are so busy taking care of him and doing whatever for you he might think you don't need him to do the same for you.
You will only loose yourself it you allow yourself to get lost.
2007-02-16 05:49:51 · answer #2 · answered by hiscinders 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U are making the same mistakes. Boy take for granted and treat shabbily girls who do many things for them and try to make their lives comfy... U must change, treat him shabbily, be demanding, complaining (but not nagging and whining) and make trouble for him. Boys appreciate trouble making bad girl, but do not appreciate the good girl, making their lives comfortable.
2007-02-16 05:54:01 · answer #3 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he should spend some time with you. As long as he is allowed to have some reasonable time with friends and family and makes some time for you, I don't see the problem. Talk to him about your desire for more quality time with him and see what happens.
2007-02-16 05:51:30 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. US of A, Baby! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be loser.If u think he is not giving attention to You. you better
not give Your attention to him. try to do Your own work your self.
don't let him to give You hand. ( You have to do this only little time
Period.) If he ask from You why are You doing this tell him that
you are the only one to close his life, if in emergency You are the only one for him. think like that about me. how i feel when you not giving your attention to me. try to how You feel like. I felt same situation some times. I find the best time to tell him how importent him to me.
2007-02-16 05:53:04 · answer #5 · answered by thipathni a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get interested in the things that he is interested in. Don't try to get him interested in your likes and dislikes. Follow him and his likes and dislikes and you'll get his attention. Most women don't do that and as a result many relationships have tension.
2007-02-16 05:44:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of Famil and No.
2007-02-16 05:44:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he better start appreciating you and stop taking you for granted as you have no problem dumping people like that!
2007-02-16 05:44:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
show him that you are important to him as much as his friends and family like do a sexy nite in and show him and also don't mother him by doing everything for him just be your self and no one Else
2007-02-16 05:46:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut him off! He gives you no attention? You give him zip,zero, nadda. Fair is fair!
2007-02-16 05:44:34 · answer #10 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋