do you think having a small dick can really lower?

Question

someone's self esteem and confidence. See i have a friend he's 24 never had a girlfriend always depressed, and what really boggles me is he's a really good looking person and always has girls flirting with him, but he just ignores them and keeps everything to himself.

Answer 1

The problem is that you don't know how big he is to be able to put things in perspective. For example, he may be comparing himself to porn starts. By that type of comparison, most guys are small. The problem with us men is that we always want a bigger dick. It's like money, we always want more and it‘s never enough.

I have a small penis. I'm only 4 1/2" when erect. To put it in perspective, business cards are usually 3 1/2" long. Which means that I'm 1" longer than a business card.

It used to bother me but I came to the realization that that's just the way it is. Pills don't work and surgery has risks involved. So I've learned to live with it. I know that there are some girls that may look at me and laugh, but hey, is that going to ruin my life... hell no! Now I laugh with them. I'm really being honest about that.

I accepted the fact that I'm small, tiny, little, or whatever name they wanna call it. Once I accepted it and accepted my penis the way it is, it changed the way I felt. I think that what helped A LOT is not just the I accepted myself, but that I changed my view of sex.

I've answer similar questions before, so I keep posting pretty much the same answer. I'll post my answer to that questions in here. Print it and hive it to him. It may help him. The problem is that if it bothers him that much, he needs some counseling. The longer he waits to seek help, the longer he'll suffer unnecessarily. I was never depressed about my situation, not like your friend. So I got over it myself, but your friend sounds like he needs help. The type of help that you can't give him. He needs professional help.

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Your problem is that you’re worrying too much about your size. You’re basing your whole manhood on how many inches you have instead of what you’re worth as a man. Or what, are you going to tell me that all you have to offer a woman is your penis & there’s nothing else good about you? If your penis is all you are worth, actually let me correct that, all that YOU think you are worth, then you MUST seek psychological help.

Let’s imagine that you have a smaller than average size…SO WHAT? Are you going to sit there & cry, b!itch about it, & feel sorry for yourself? Or even throw your money away buying pills?

Why not use all that energy and use it in educating yourself on how to REALLY please women. I say REALLY because there’re a lot of guys out there that think that penis size is everything. Hell with penis size, most men think that their penis (regardless of size) is all women need in bed.

Do yourself a favor & think really hard about what I’m about to say…YOU DO NOT NEED A PENIS TO SATISFY WOMEN!!! If a penis is so indispensable when it comes to pleasing women, how is it that lesbians, who don‘t even have penises, can satisfy other women? I've talked to a lot of girls who swear that a skilled lesbian can satisfy them in ways that most guys, even with big penises, can only dream of. Oh & please, put aside the misconception that lesbians always use dildos & vibrators. Which is not true at all. I know some lesbians & bi females that have never owned nor used one. That's something that women do in porn movies because those movies are targeting men. I’m not saying that some don’t use them, but ask any lesbian that use them and they’ll tell you that they can live without them

I used to have a 7” penis, after a surgery to remove some fibrous tissue that had built due to injury, I end up with a 4 ½” penis. At first I wasn’t too happy about, like most guy would too. But after a few months after my surgery, I’ve come to realized that it was a blessing in disguise. In fact, I never really wanted to have the size that I now have, but if I was given the choice of going back to my old size, I probably would. But ONLY as long as I was able to keep the knowledge that I’ve gained. If I were to lose that knowledge in the process of going back to my original size, I wouldn’t want to go back. NO WAY!

My new size has made me rethink about the way that I used to try to please women. I used to think that I was a great lover. Now I know that I never was. At least not to the extend that I could had been. I was pretty selfish like most guys.

I’ve spent a lot of time after my surgery listening to women talk about sex. Asking them questions about what they really want in bed & so on. After talking to a lot of them, including lesbians & bisexuals (I live close to West Hollywood, which in case you don‘t know, it‘s a gay community), I now have a better understanding of what women really want in bed. .

I now compare sex with a nice romantic dinner. Our penis, regardless of size, is NOT the main dish on the table. Kissing, hugging, caressing…in other words, lot’s of affection is the appetizer. A full body massage with soft kisses all over her body is a great appetizer. Then comes the main dish, which is a combination of masturbation and oral sex (on her, not you dummy). Once she’s had enough (once she‘s pleased), then your penis becomes the dessert (and the main dish for us guys). Then comes the toppings (whip cream, nuts, etc.) on the desert. The toppings are the kisses, the holding and caressing that comes after sex while laying in bed together. The smaller your penis, the more this is true.

Unfortunately, most guys, specially “big” guys think that a couple of minutes of kissing, masturbation and/or may be some oral sex is the appetizer, & their penis is the main dish & the dissert all rapped into one. Some guys think that the appetizer is the girl going down on them & not the other way around.

In case that what I said above doesn’t help you reprogram the way you think. I’ll leave you with the following interesting fact. According to MANY surveys and studies (on penis size & the female orgasm) VERY FEW women ever achieve orgasms from penetration ALONE. And get this.. REGARLESS OF THE SIZE OF THE PENIS!!! Think about it!

Answer 2

Women are teasers. They'll test you 'till the end to fall in the trap of being insecure. It's part of their DNA. They want to make sure that the guy they're with will step up and man up no matter what. It's a freaking trick to make you feel insecure and see how you react. Unconsciously she wants to know you won't back off despite her offensive comments. She basically wants a MAN who will be like... yeah rite... I have a small dick so what!!! Dude! It's not the freaking size!!! Believe me! Now you want to take your revenge... Start arousing her sexually... when she's really wanting to have sex... tell her... I won't **** you 'cause I have a small dick! She'll feel like ****! He won't **** me? There's like a whole lot you can do about it dude... Everybody knows that a big dick is great but won't necessarily do wonders... In the end if she's with you it is because she's freaking attracted to you and she knows that you could **** the brains out of her!

Answer 3

Only if a friend posts about one's shortcomings on one of the world's largest websites.

Answer 4

yes it can it can stop you having a gf it can just make you hide away rom the world & just wait to die

Answer 5

he take take penis growing pills to make them bigger lol