You meet someone, who is shy to tell you that he loves you and you find yourself loving this person too, but the only problem is that he already has someone. Now you want to brush off this feelings, and forget about him,how do you get over that??? How do you stop thinking about him???
2007-02-15 20:59:15 · 4 answers · asked by Ref.k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Time Heals...
Before you know it you will be head over heels for someone else.
I know its hard right now and the pain wont just go away...love is a strong emotion. But, like I said...Time Heals.
Love yourself ~ That is the most important thing.
2007-02-15 21:07:12 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You check yourself into My Course, on "Love 101". My Students, don't Graduate, until they are actually "In Love". There is One Class, And One Lesson. and it's free! Shall we start? Good! Your Lesson states that Love is suppose to come from The heart. Your Heart. And His Heart. If it's from any other part of the Bod? It's gonna fail. Your Head? Your Crotch? Or just the fear of being alone? Love has to come The Heart. And grow, from inside The Heart. If you listen to Your Own heart? And it talks to his? They can make a Match. But it all starts with "Two Hearts". Not from wishes or demands. Now! How soon will I be giving you your Diploma?
2007-02-16 05:08:25 · answer #2 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will speak from personal experience.
I am in a similar situation with an ex -boyfriend that has moved on and is currently dating another woman. We still love each other, but he doesn't want to be with me.. obviously, since he's still with his current girlfriend. How and why we broke up is a long story, but to make it short, it was a bunch of misunderstandings, misinterpretations and all that jazz...
Anyway, tell yourself that you are completely done seeing him, tell him that you no longer want to speak with him, if needed, and grieve over him as if they are no longer around you, and there is absolutely no way to contact him (as if he was dead.)
I know this sounds drastic, but this is what helps me. I had to tell my ex to quit contacting me so I lost all communication with him so I could let my grieving begin. Since I've been starting to get over him, my eyes have opened up and I'm seeing other possibilities of relationships with different men. I hardly ever think about my ex any more!
I hope this helps you
2007-02-16 05:13:48 · answer #3 · answered by Chibi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. This guy is taken. You don't want to be needy.
2007-02-16 05:03:34 · answer #4 · answered by Phillip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋