I get hurt very easy and when he dumped me I was only upset for maybe 10 or 15 min. I guess because we had broken up a few times before. We had always gotten back together and this had been going on for almost 7 months. He dumped me a few days before V-Day.
I dont know I just wish it was like all the other times when we just got back together.
He said I was young and nag to much but now he "likes" a girl that is 15 going on 16.
I need help.
2007-02-15 20:56:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I believe it is time to move on, girly.
Ask yourself, how much could he really care if all he does is dump you and take you back, dump you, and take you back? It isn't a healthy relationship, and it will probably never turn out to be a steady relationship from where it stands now.
2007-02-15 21:01:34 · answer #1 · answered by Chibi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In this on-again off-again relationship, there is a revalation. That one is, he will be like this no matter what. Suppose you both decide to get married one day, so what do you think will happen?
I will give this to you - in 2 years after marriage he will break it up. It is not you who will do it but he will be the one to do it.
And, for what reason? For an younger girl than you. You could be 20 or 22. He will be say, around 25. But he will be still chasing the 16 year olds.
That's his nature. He clearly revealed this to you. The writing is on the wall. In life, disappointments do happen. Chalk this for experience and be careful next time. Such behaviour is a pre-warning to you but also to everyone who is reading this.
I know. I have been there. Wise thing to say to yourself is to never to take him back no matter what and watch for early-warning sign in your next one. Wake up little girl.........!!
This is your personality, and that's the way you are. There is no compatibility. It is so clear that I can see it. I do not even know you.
2007-02-16 05:14:40 · answer #2 · answered by Nightrider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heh... I used to do this.
Alright, listen up, Basically, you were his filler, like when he's feeling lonely your his "goto" girl, basically he had you so he wouldnt' feel lonely, but could look at/for other girls, and if he was rejected it was ok, cuz he had you to fall back on, when he said you were "young and nag too much" it was because he already had his eye on the girl, that was "15-16", and basically, he didn't have any real good reason to break up with you, so he threw that out there.
Your best bet is to make it official in your mind, that it's over with him, because more than likely when it's over with the '15 going on 16" girl, he'll come back to your before he goes back on the prowl again.
I have revealed to you one of man's secrets, so be wise.
2007-02-16 05:04:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i know its a cliche buy it always takes time....
you may want him more now that you know his interested in someone else....but believe me youll get over it and move on to bigger and better things....
2007-02-16 05:01:41 · answer #4 · answered by askaway 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋