do gals really dont want good guys. i m out my mind doing good with all gals bt all i got is they left me.?

Question

i m tired of doing good everytimes with gals but in end wht i get is tht they say tht u r very nice guy and will find someone else much good then me. and just left me. i never purposed them bt they just leave me. i just do care abt them and take tension tht none can make them feel bad. wht u guys say wht shld i do?

Answer 1

just keep trying stud just keep trying.

Answer 2

Maybe you are trying too hard. As a woman I would say that I like good treatment but there are the times when you would find some women around that if they aren't worried about their guy wondering about on them that he isn't good enough for them so they always let the good ones go. Hey just keep going at it I had the same problem just going through one bad guy after the next and soon enough I wises up and women naturally do this when they are ready to settle in life. It is very likely that a woman wants to settle with the bad guys on the motorcycles and the gangsters. They look for the good guys like you. So its probably the type of women that you are after...
But don't give up the good fight your dream girl is out there some where so don't make these bimbos make you loose the fight.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

You have to balance it bud, at times be a gentlemen, and from time to time, be a jerk, give her a hard time about something she's doing.

In relationships you might be too aggressive from the sound of it, guys fall in love faster than girls, so you have to balance space, but let her know that your into her. Once she makes it known that she loves you, then you can take the next time, whatever that may be.

In general girls dont' know waht they want, just be yourself, if you force yourself to be what a girl you have the hots for wants in a guy, you'll just be disapointed in the long run.

Anyway, Good luck bro.

Answer 5

I'm going to help you out and lead you on the right track here bro. Your heading up the wrong path and obviously what your doing isnt working. So when something doesnt work, you have to CHANGE. So let me advise you what girls want. Girls like guys that are

- Alpha-male
- Confidence
- Funny
- Exciting
- Adventurous
- Takes care of their body (clean shaven, in shape)

With that said, "doing things" for girls aren't bad. You can do it from time to time, like ONCE in awhile. Being "alpha" means doing what YOU want and being dominant and in control. So if it means putting your own self interest in front of others, then so be it (thats a natural instinct that nature programmed into humans for survival). And from what I see, its probably other things that are an issue and not just "doing nice things" for girls. Thats just oversimplifying things....

Answer 6

I think that your hurting for affection!!
give it a rest Casanova!!!
you don't need a girl friend all the time.
just try going single if it doesn't work out with the other girls then just stay single for a while and wor on strategies to talk to girls.
there are plenty more fish in the sea and it sounds that your a little young for love.
just be patient and she'll find you!
don't rush you've got your whole life to find that special one who is willing to share the same passion as you.
you sound like a down to earth guy that i would probably date.
don't take things too seriously at first!
let mother nature take it's toll. be good and she'll get to you!
don't chose skanky,slutty girls you'll only just get hurt you need some one who is similar to you!
good luck.

Answer 7

They do not want good guys. If they did, they would choose them. Yet time and time again they reject decent guys in favor of the "bad boys" that they prefer.

There isn't a great deal you can do really. You could always turn yourself into a "bad boy", do the sort of things that women seem to find so appealing, cheat on them, slap them around, that sort of thing.

Answer 8

Hey there everyone!!

I found you all, after being so long with out BT boards adn i read a post about this one, thank god i found it before the name change too!!

I have missed you all, and hope to catch up with everyone too!! I have been going through **** and back since last time we all talked and only getting worse.

I saw my doc in sept and he finnaly decided that a pain pump is my next step and having baclofen and some other narcotic in the pump to try and flatten out my foot and also help my pain, bc it has gotten out of control. I usually have been able to sleep through the nite once i find a good position where im nothing is touching my foot , but now its soo bad that it just aches and horribly hurts just laying there and if i do get to sleep, it wakes me up just with intense pain in my ankle. but you all know how that is and its just finally either changing the pain levels or?? and im feeling it again, when i have become "numb" to it to a point before.

I decided to take some classes at a local college to see if i could get my mind off of it and also be able to get my second degree. I am taking one nite class once a week in math (god its been 10 years since i took math and im bad..lmao but have a 91 in the class so far..) and the other 3 are online classes so i can self pace myself and do them when ever and even at 3 am when im awake!! All those classes are doing good and the professor knows what i am going through and understands that i might be a little late on submitting a test, and says its not a prob and wont mark me down for that either. so i guess i am doing ok and to a point that it is taking my mind off it, but sometimes its just to great and im glad that i have foudn you all agian!! you are the only ones that really know what im going through!!

I decided to get the pain pump on Jan 8th. so i wouldnt miss or get really be hind in any of my classes. if i knew that my doc had this in his pocket i wouldnt have signed up for classes but i saw him 3 weeks after they started so i was stuck.

Answer 9

Girls say they want a nice guy, but they really don't, they don't want an obnoxious jerk either....

What they really want, and most will deny is that they want a guy who's a man, a bit of a jerk, but is funny...

If you can do that, you're good, besides being a semi jerk takes less effort than being a nice guy. It's a fine line though from being a nice jerk to being a prick...and if you're a prick, you can kiss the girls goodbye..

Answer 10

Yes, what they say and do are two different things.
They can't help it, it's hard wired.
If your too giving and nice then they think you are weak and desperate. Try this "Whats in it for me?"
"I will let you know" Be a leader, rather than appreciative that they are spending time with you and you would do anything for them.

Answer 11

to some extent it is true especially with girls in her early teens where they are up to trying and experiencing new things
dop not take it to heart
it always pays to be good just wait you wd be rewarded