So I have a little time off this week and my girlfriend of 4 months (whom I love dearly and know she loves me back) is in Switzerland snowboarding. We have talked via text every day. Wanted to talk on the phone yesterday but we both had conflicts. (She wanted me to call at 6, but I planned a guys night out and had to eat dinner and then leave) I had offered to call earlier but she said It wouldnt work. She also said she was a lil peeved that we cudnt talk but said it was "no biggie" and told me to have a fun night.
After I am done with dinner, I have a little extra time and give her a call (she doesnt pick up) then a lil later I call again and leave her a nice loving message . I then have a night out with the guys and left her a txt at abt 10pm, jus to tell her I love her. And am sitting here 2day with no responce. Should I be worried? Was she sarcastic in saying it was "no biggie", Is she not responding because she doesnt want to talk? or b/c mayb she was really doing something?
2007-02-15 20:25:52 · 9 answers · asked by vincy015 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can honestly relate to this, because I just got out of a long distance relationship, and miscommunications happened often. I was constantly reading into everything he said to me, and sometimes I would feel like he was choosing his friends over me. I don't think she is upset, but give her some time without texting or calling, and she will call back. If you're worried about her safety, maybe send her one more text saying that you are worried about her and want to make sure she is okay.
2007-02-15 20:36:08 · answer #1 · answered by Ali 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not be nervous. You are making the mistake of obsessing over her while she is away, because you wait so intently for her to contact you, you get carried away when she doesn't. Typical male behaviour.
Take a chill pill. Go out and do things with your buddies. Get drunk or whatever. Because the truth is that regardless of what the situation is, there is NOTHING you can do.
I would assume the best- she is carried away with having fun! Leave it at that, assume the best of her.
The worst thing you can do is be suspicious to her. That is a lack of trust and any girl will tell you a big no no.
Just relax. Worst case scenario- she has something to tell you like that shes pissed off with xyz or shes kissed some guy over there. But theres no point assuming that prematurely. Just do you own thing, you will find out what the deal is shortly. Play it cool. Maybe don't send anymore messages. Sometimes when people get a number of messages they assume that the person sending knows they have got them because it feels like a conversation. If she doesn hear from you for a while the more and more she will feel inclined to txt with the hours counting
It will work out, almost certainly for the best, so relax man
2007-02-16 04:39:02 · answer #2 · answered by Oz Billy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry soo much, I'm sure she was just really busy! "No biggie" means that she'll find the time some other time and that she's not sad, because she didn't want you to cancel your night out with the guys! I'm she misses you dearly, don't be soo paranoid!
2007-02-16 04:35:08 · answer #3 · answered by Amy ;) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's just a matter of trust, really. if you trust her, it wouldn't be a BIG of a deal if she has responded. maybe she had some girl things to do so she had little sleep, maybe she's taking the rest of the day to get it.
anyways, just tell her that you were worried sick that she hasn't responded your texts and calls so she would know. ok? then let her explain her side what happened. talk, talk and talk. good communication lines is one big factor to make a relationship work.
2007-02-16 04:38:52 · answer #4 · answered by jen_good girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it even if she is angry because I doubt it that she would want to break up with you over a phone call anyway. Do the dramatic which girls love unexpectedly visit her and bring her twelve long stemmed red roses deep red. If you are confused look up the meaning of roses and their colors and you'll understand why you would be sweeping her off her feet.
2007-02-16 05:01:36 · answer #5 · answered by *Pretty In Pink* 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No worries,typical of us gals,wen she's over that.u two will be back to normal.
2007-02-16 04:32:06 · answer #6 · answered by lady x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet Jesus!
Do you expect anyone to read that novel ???
2007-02-16 04:30:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u seems too possessive better leave that habit
2007-02-16 04:34:42 · answer #8 · answered by Caring 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your toast buddy we love ya or hate ya you guess
2007-02-16 04:34:45 · answer #9 · answered by lynn g 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋