Should I be nervous?

Question

So I have a little time off this week and my girlfriend of 4 months (whom I love dearly and know she loves me back) is in Switzerland snowboarding. We have talked via text every day. Wanted to talk on the phone yesterday but we both had conflicts. (She wanted me to call at 6, but I planned a guys night out and had to eat dinner and then leave) I had offered to call earlier but she said It wouldnt work. She also said she was a lil peeved that we cudnt talk but said it was "no biggie" and told me to have a fun night.
After I am done with dinner, I have a little extra time and give her a call (she doesnt pick up) then a lil later I call again and leave her a nice loving message . I then have a night out with the guys and left her a txt at abt 10pm, jus to tell her I love her. And am sitting here 2day with no responce. Should I be worried? Was she sarcastic in saying it was "no biggie", Is she not responding because she doesnt want to talk? or b/c mayb she was really doing something?

tried calling her again this morning...no answer...It is still early tho 9:52 AM possibility she is still sleeping and/or snowboarding already...

ohh and another thing...I was sensing she was down yesterday (after we werent able to call) and she said "why should something be wrong" sarcastic?, and then went on to say how she was peeved

Answer 1

I would be extremely concerned! either something bad happened to her or she met someone over there and is cheating on you with them

Answer 2

Either she is mad at you for picked your friends over her, when she is your g/f. Suppose to get first priority..But you chose your guys nite out instead... Beside that, it could be the reasons that you had been worried. Because I don't see why she can pick up the phone or at least response to you once. If I am really mad at my b/f, I won't picked up the phone the first few times, but if he keeps calling for two days straight, I'll pick up at least once or text him to let him knows that I am mad at him. Because I know if the situation reversed, I would have been worry sick if anything have happened to him. Maybe you should stop trying to call her for a day or two ( after you 've been trying to reach her a lot.) If she is really care and worry like you did with her then she 'll call back. I know i would if I am in her shoes. When I was young,I used to did that, got mad at my b/f and won't pick up. Good luck.

Answer 3

It sounds like you are concerned and feeling a little insecure.

Mind reading, guessing and making assumptions about what someone else is doing or thinking can really take up a lot of time and energy.

Enjoy yourself, stop worrying about her and what she might be doing/thinking. Why try to make up things to worry about? Trust in life and your relationship that you can go a day or two without talking and still love each other.

Insecurity wears away at relationships. Be at peace and take life as it comes rather than worrying about where it's going.

Kind regards

Answer 4

Have you tried to talk with her since your 10pm text message? If not you should. It's hard to say if you should be nervous or not. She could be mad at you, or maybe she isn't getting good reception with her phone, or maybe your text didn't go through (I've had that problem), or maybe she lost her phone or it got broke. I would try to call her again, not text her, but call her. I don't know what else to tell you.

Answer 5

She wants attention and wants you to call her on time.
From your side stop phoning her and sending her messages for a while and maybe she will wonder were you are and phone you

Answer 6

hopefully shes just palying with you

Answer 7

yep u betta be