I met this guy when I visited home for a few weeks. There was an instant attraction, and I fell pretty fast. I am not his typical type, nor is he mine. He usually dates partying type girls, and I'm more down to Earth. (The point of that is our relationship was different from all our other ones in the past.) I live in a different state than him, but will be moving back there (my hometown) In May. We decided that we would try the long distant thing. Eventually we mutually decided to split because of the strain the distance was on us, but before we even got a chance to really talk about it...My friends (that hang out with the same group as him) told me that he was already seeing another girl. Only a week after we broke up, he was dating her (it's like junior High again). We still talk sometimes, although it's awkward because I'm pretty angry that he said he loved me, and started dating someone else so fast.
2007-02-15 19:29:56 · 5 answers · asked by Ali 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One night, he sent me some text messages saying that he can't get me off his mind, and that he can't wait until I get back so we can be together. I sent him one back saying..."Ummm you have a girlfriend" He said, "I won't when you get back...but shh about it haha." I was less than amused and said "I don't think so". Since then, he hasn't said anything about it, probably because he is embaressed, but I know his plan is to use this girl until I get back and then try to get back with me. As much as I want to, I KNOW I can't because of what he is doing right now, to me and to her (although I don't have much respect for her because she was all over him the whole time we were dating). If I did, wouldn't that justify how he is acting? I could have got over the splitting up and then getting back together when I get back, but the fact that he is trying to use her and hold on to me...What do I say to him when he tries to get back with him. Something that will set him straight?
2007-02-15 19:30:35 · update #1
Tell him his indecisiveness is evidence of just how mixed up his emotions are. He is young and being quite immature! You need a confident man who knows what he wants and won't play games with your feelings or hers. You are a Queen and won't settle for being treated as a secondary option. The man who makes you feel real love will give you %100 and will never be a part time lover!!
And then tell him to **** OFF!!
2007-02-15 19:58:20 · answer #1 · answered by Big S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you just got into something with the wrong guy. I was in one of those same situations.She was just fine when ever I was there but there was a few times I had to be far away `cause of my job and she was like a single girl. It`s just the way some people are and I am not, so I don`t have a lot of respect for the ones that lie and cheat. There are a lot of dirt bags out there who will try any thing to get into your pants but there are also some peopIe who still value having a commitment with one person and cares enough about that person to not tell lies and be real. You pretty much start a relationship with trust for your significant other untill you have reason not to any more. At that point you have to decide if the issues are just going to damage you to much to be happy. If you just jump back into it thinking maybe they will change... I think at that point you haven`t learned your lesson yet. I believe every one is made up a certain way and no matter what, that`s who we are.Basically your personallity. If they are okay with the things they do, why would they change? They might lie a few more times to get what they want untill you learn your lesson... I think you and I should hook up.
2007-02-15 20:08:32 · answer #2 · answered by stewilliamsx2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a dink. I really hope you don't go back with him because you cant trust him. the fact that he was so cocky probably sent a shutter around the web from girls everywhere.lol.
If he asks just say you cant date him because you don't trust him.
Now go find a man who's got a pair..
2007-02-15 19:42:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants it all. Oviously he wants to keep you on the back burner but wants a new girl too, forget about him, you can do better.
2007-02-15 19:34:53 · answer #4 · answered by megs1bq 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about F*** Off! Send him to hell.
All the best!/
2007-02-15 19:39:25 · answer #5 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋