finally got up the nerve to ask my crush(my trainer) to 'hang out". i text messaged him asking him that we should hang out soon and he text messaged me back ten minutes later...that he would, although it have to be the next time he gets paid because he's broke as a joke" quote on quote.. andas we conversated furthur he went on furthur to say that he's a shy guy when it comes to women because he's afraid or rejection.. I asked him does he fell confident enough to get with an attractive woman..and he said yes but usually and he's not in pursuit .. well, he said it depends what mood he's in...So I text messaged him about a job..he's suppossed to be hooking me up with get no return message,I even called ..no call
I know in the past he has invited me to his church group(but never came through on his invite)..and he invited me to workout with him(never followed through)..but he has told me that if I ever hang out to call him..so we can hit up a movie..so I did..
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10 minutes ago
He didn't decline my offer..he said he wanted to take me out when he gets paid..next week
2 minutes ago
well.I know he's said things to me in thepast like..why everytime I see you..you're leaving..am I ruining your gym experience" then there was another occasion and he told me that If you don;t want to be here you don't have too" and he asked me If I played sports and told me he wanted to play with me" so he was showing interes
2007-02-15 19:19:21 · 6 answers · asked by Lola M 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
The ball is in his court, quit messaging him or you will sound desperate for either the job or the date. If he follows through then great if not then he really wasn't that interested shy or not just didn't know how to tell you.
2007-02-15 19:29:14 · answer #1 · answered by Wicked Good 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When you were talking about going on a date he was probably ok. When you changed the conversation to ask him about a hook up on a job, he probably felt used and felt as though you really didn't want the date, just the job.
2007-02-15 19:50:35 · answer #2 · answered by So_many_questions 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like he's a good guy. Don't overreact honey. Give him a little time. You have to understand that a guy isn't comfortable being broke out on a date. It's a guy thing. He told you he's shy so just let nature take its course. But please don't go chasing him off because you feel he isn't getting back to you when you want. He'll call..............
2007-02-15 19:34:04 · answer #3 · answered by miss_diva 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it all depends on how you want him. Is this just a physical attraction? or more than that? I'll tell you why that is relevant: He is feeling you out. I bet that if you make it clear to him that it's just a physical thing, he will take you up on your offer. But other than that, he's not that interested in you. or if he is, its only when its convenient for him. Sorry, just my opinion.
2007-02-15 19:36:34 · answer #4 · answered by icantgetaname73 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yup leave him alone and if he really likes you he'll come around.
2007-02-15 19:29:34 · answer #5 · answered by It Co$t To Be Around The Bo$$ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just give him a break?;) You did MORE than enough; don't forget that you're the WOMAN, not the man. So, stop acting like a man;)
2007-02-15 19:24:26 · answer #6 · answered by Love_my_Cornish_Knight❤️ 7 · 2⤊ 3⤋