How come everytime I ask my beau about what he really likes in a particular thing (could be intimate or casual) He just answered me back that I should know it already?!
I know actions speak louder than words but sometimes I need to know what's really on his mind coz not at all times I can be a mind reader or an action reader. I just don't want to jump into a conclusion. What should I do?
2007-02-15 19:06:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him you need to know in his word.....if he says you should know already....tell him you are not sure because you cannot read his mind.
The key to this is to communicate and talk. I assume you ahev not talked to him about this issue....so talk to him because he also can't read your mind.....good luck
2007-02-15 19:13:22 · answer #1 · answered by chardonnayormerlot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, there's really no "good" advice to give you. It's gonna be tough. And even YOU know that only time can fix this. The bottom line is you don't want to make it work with her, so it's simply NOT gonna happen. I don't even think she's worth your time for trying to rub it in your face that she's back with her previous. After ALL you've done for her. But then again, you know her better than I do. She may have been trying to make you jealous and end up coming back to her because really, she wanted you back (without confessing to it.) Don't depend on what others tell you. Sometimes, it manipulates what you really should do or how you feel about the situation. If you want to go through the trouble of making it happen again, then go for it. It's not fair that she treats you the way she does because of her past BUT does your heart tell you it'll change in the future? If you want to walk away, there's no immediate cure. "Your" daughter will always be a part of you but you take the good with the bad and move forward with your life. There's always a reason for everything that happens. Keep your head up. :)
2016-05-24 06:09:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lushbabe....Look into my eyes closely, tell me what you see.
Can you really read my mine or know what I want(I don't mean a dirty, kinky stuffs)?
But I can tell you this, he is lucky to have you as a girlfriend who is caring & considerated. If you & I were single, I would definitely ask you out because I do have a special interest in your character. And I really like to see that in a girl.
To answer your question, he's a self-absorbed, attention seeker.
I can't make the decision for you but I have given you my thought & opinion about him.
Good luck sweety, hopefully we can be together in the next life time.
2007-02-15 19:17:53 · answer #3 · answered by Infinite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he has trouble comunicating. You should talk to him about it. Tell him what you just told us about not being a mind reader or action reader all of the time. I wouldn't jump to any conclusion, maybe he just doesn't know to comunicate. Maybe his parents had trouble comunicating with each other, and he's just following their example. Anyhow, I would just talk to him about it, and let him know how you feel about him not wanting to comunicate what he's thinking.
2007-02-15 19:15:20 · answer #4 · answered by Kyle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish that I could be of more help to you...I deal with this same thing. "You should know" or "You have the answer to that." It totally drives me insane. I wish I was a mind reader. I thought I was the only one who dealt with this.
2007-02-15 19:13:14 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to him that while he thinks you should know all the answers, that you dont, and you dont want to jump to conclusions. Hopefully, that will fix things.
If not, then start answering his questions with, "You should know that already." and start asking yourself if you want to be with someone who doesnt have much to say.
2007-02-15 19:12:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The feeling is mutual. Just go on & tell him what's happening in your mind.
2007-02-16 01:30:33 · answer #7 · answered by Desire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One shud avoid obvious questions.
2007-02-15 19:27:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some ppl arent just very good at this stuff , if he loves , i think thats enough , stop questioning his intensions
2007-02-15 19:12:28 · answer #9 · answered by guru ji 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. yeah u r right
2007-02-15 19:12:30 · answer #10 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋