Do you think my ex boyfriend still loves me if he's called me every two weeks for the past two years since we broke up. He says he misses me, goodnight etc. He broke up with me b/c I moved away for college and am seven years younger and he is trying to get his caree going..he told me that we are both living seperate lives but will live a beautiful life together someday. Should I beleive him? I feel like he wouldnt be calling and texting me so much if he really didn't love. What do you think? Would you call and text your ex every two weeks for two years if you didnt see hope for the future?
2007-02-15 19:02:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Number 1 -- only you know what hes capable of because you get to talk to him, you were with him, you can see or saw the look in his eyes as he promised you the world - if he did.
He can either be like some guys who want to keep you on the side, maybe get some in the future.
Maybe hes having regrets and truly is missing you
or maybe hes bored, and calls you because hes unsure
or maybe he really does want to provide for you, and either feels bad because he cant offer you all he feels you deserve, and/or is regretful that he has to be away from you.
But the bottom line is only you can see and feel if his heart is true.
You have to look for it, and cant go in blindly hoping that his words are true.
Now, I would say have him live up to his words right now.
Tell him, if you want to be with me, then lets be together and try to make this distance thing work when others have failed. Lets stay true to eachother and if youre serious and you really want a future with me, lets work towards it together, now!
Make him choose, and be a man about it. Yes I want to do everythign to keep you, or we'll see what happens.
But by not doing it, hes only confusing you.
And you really put him in a position to see if his words are true, or if hes just a guy trying to keep something on the side.
Good luck with it.
If a girls worth efforting for -- shes worth efforting for nomatter how far you are.
All those that say long distance relationships dont work -- well, apparently they didnt love the other person enough to fight to make it work.
So, good luck with it.
I hope you get what you deserve
2007-02-15 19:11:48 · answer #1 · answered by writersbIock2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 19:54:14 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it flow and don't hold yourself to anything. You're not committed to each other and you should be out experiencing life as a college student because that will end and you will be out in the world with a career and there is no way to know where that path will lead and you don't need the complications of a relationship getting in the way. If you care for him keep up the contact and still do all the college and social stuff and just wait to see how it all pans out. The thing is, you are a separate person who is working on some personal growth into the world of a career and the relationships will happen and keep you sane but the growth is what's important and you should have some freedom in the relationship area since college doesn't have as much freedom. Don't concern yourself with developing lasting relationships over developing yourself into your career. Once you are out of school and at least close to being in your career you will still have time to settle down with someone. You have a lot of "future" to endure, just live in the day you are in. Best wishes.
2007-02-15 19:19:45 · answer #3 · answered by chrissy757 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, two years is an awfully long time, and if he still actually talks to you of his own will saying that he misses you, and he wants you back, then it just shows he's a real jewel. If you still find that you have something going for him, I say GO FOR IT! This type of guy is gradually becoming a minority in this world, most of which we have left are jerks who only think of getting you into bed, not a relationship. Good luck!
2016-03-28 22:19:09 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like there's soemthing wrong with him, sorry. I had a true love leave the country on me two years ago, I would kill to have her back, but I have dated and am always functioning well without her.
2007-02-15 19:14:54 · answer #5 · answered by Orion Quest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that i loves you!!For exemple , me when it's broke up it's broke up!!I don't call or text my ex every day!!he wants to have a new relationships!!
Sorry for my enghish,i am french
2007-02-15 19:13:22 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause of separation not being ill temper of either, there is no harm in getting together.
2007-02-15 19:19:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can hope for it, but just dont depend on it. Dont let his words stop you from chasing the life that you want.
2007-02-15 19:08:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not about what he feels for you, it's about how you feel about him. He's had his shot, shop around and don't be in a hurry.
2007-02-15 19:08:51 · answer #9 · answered by Jake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋