So first off I cant spell ettiquite and im too lazy to look it up.. anyway....
So I have been out on 2 dates with this lady. Nothing but hugs so far, although I did give her a kiss on the cheek last night. Sent her flowers for valentines day and ask her to dinner with those flowers.
How often should we be calling/talking to each other at this phase? Daily? Every other day? Whats the norm, I'm just curious I guess as to other peoples opinions?
After how many dates w/ no kiss is it safe to assume the girl just wants to be friends?
Is a kenny loggins concert a good idea for a 3rd date this weekend?
Who loves kidney beans?
2007-02-15 18:50:34 · 7 answers · asked by SainT 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are in a very good position. Girls like suspense. You have not damaged things by not kissing her yet. But it is time to bust a move.
NOT daily, daily is like madly in love. I would say every second to third day. The trick is to balance between not letting her think you are thinking about nothing else but her and have a life and making her think that you don't care enough- lets say you called two weeks later. But really more is generally better between calls than less. Sorry but its psychology.
The less interested she is the more that is true. Interested girls will make a lot of allowances. But its best to play high percentage right.
A concert sounds fine for the third date. Be charming and for GODS sake try and kiss her when you get back to her door or whatever
2007-02-15 19:02:46 · answer #1 · answered by Oz Billy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How often should we be calling/talking to each other at this phase? Daily? Every other day? Whats the norm, I'm just curious I guess as to other peoples opinions?
at this point it seems you are just beginnign to get to knwo each other so I suggest only callign to arrange dates.
After how many dates w/ no kiss is it safe to assume the girl just wants to be friends? 3 if she is catholic 5
Is a kenny loggins concert a good idea for a 3rd date this weekend? horrible, it is too soon
Who loves kidney beans? Me!
2007-02-15 18:55:28 · answer #2 · answered by Political Scientist BG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got it all together already. Kenny would be great if she's a fan.
However, monitor how often she contacts you to make the assessment of what is appropriate for how often you contact her.
It's the twentieth century women are make babies on the first date....well........ ( you get my point). Just go for it, you may find that you're moving slower than what she likes. If you want to be really clever kiss her when you pick her, tell her how great she looks (notice something different about her) and kiss her. she's more opt to give in now because she knows it won't go any further at this point. This will set the tone for the rest of the evening.
p.s. If she say something about the kiss................. well ............ see if you can get with one of the groupies at the concert, cause girlfriend just want to be friends.
2007-02-15 19:11:27 · answer #3 · answered by dadgonewild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, there is no norm---you are right to take it slow, take it easy, have fun dates---no kiss...a lttle kiss...there is nothing written here about any kisses or hugs--they will come naturally---BUT take it slow and easy---NO RUSH...A concert is fine--just stop the drama about affection displays. Yes I like the beans---why?? So be a nice guy, smile and have fun. Good luck
2007-02-15 18:56:48 · answer #4 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no longer unavoidably, lol it is referred to as a date, i think of via fact they set a date mutually on which they are gonna flow out. i think of diverse human beings do quite some issues on their dates.
2016-10-02 05:44:12 · answer #5 · answered by whiteford 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time, give the courtship a chance, and get to know one another. The key is communication.
2007-02-15 18:53:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwwww.....you spent money on her but she won't budge or give in.
2007-02-15 18:56:41 · answer #7 · answered by Infinite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋