Uh for some reason i still take her calls, and let her beat me down with her words. She did it pretty bad today, she is making it easier to not love her, but.....My heart, and my chest they hurt so bad, i just can't stop crying and i still want to talk to her, she really F***ed my head up....This isn't a question really. i just can't beleive how overwhelming this is. anyone going through this?
2007-02-15 18:48:15 · 8 answers · asked by aphotic nostrum 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This would be easy to read if you were a girl and it was a heartache about a boy, but since you're not, I believe that you are a very sensitive soul. Your heart and chest hurt because you really loved the girl and it stresses you out that she is talking to you like that. I would not have anything to do with her, because you need to get over a ***** like that. There are much better, prettier, and respectful girls out there that will love you for everything you are and everything that you have to offer. Get yourself together, and find a real woman. Or just heal for now.
2007-02-15 18:56:23 · answer #1 · answered by ht_butterfly27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there and done that, sweetie! Sounds like you fell in love and she broke it off. Also sounds like she knows that you still love her and that she's manipulating your emotions. In all honesty, if you can find the inner strength to do so, don't take her calls right now. There really isn't anything good that can come from this while you are feeling so raw! And you certainly don't need to be her emotional punching bag! Give yourself some time and hang out with some really good and supportive friends. After a while, the pain will dissapate and you'll start to feel better. If you don't though, talk to someone you trust about it. When it hurts this bad, sometimes we need a little help from outside. Take care and keep the faith! This too shall pass....eventually!
2007-02-16 02:54:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Went through this with my ex who is now my husband. It is hard to shut off feelings for someone whom you've felt so passionately about. There comes a time where you have to ask yourself if this is someone who really cares about you or if they will do you in? I married the man who I felt passionately about, but I believe he will do me in! He called and called until eventually, he wore me out and I gave in. Although I will always love him more than anyone else, I know that he isn't the right one for me.
They will tell you that NO ONE will love you like they do, diminishing your self confidence. And sometimes, it works. But anyone who has to f8ck with your head is insecure themselves. They will cut you down and insult you to make themselves feel better, and you don't need that in your life.
I love my husband, but if I had to do it all over again, I wouldn't fall for it!!!
2007-02-16 03:02:52 · answer #3 · answered by ktterdfurguson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally have never gone through this...but what you are going through is called verbal abuse...the best thing to do is not take her calls....or if you want to you can seek a couples counsillor and seek advice that way. I hope you can get out of this and still want to trust other women that will come into your life.
2007-02-16 02:54:02 · answer #4 · answered by writersbestfriend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through it 8 years ago. I broke up with the father of my child because he was cheating on me. it wasn't easy because he used to come everyday to apologise, i did take him back until he started cheating again. this time it was over forever. at first i wes thinking of my child growing up without a father but later i thought of many kids who grow up without fathers and they are diong well. what im trying to say is time is the best healer avoid her calls thats all
2007-02-16 02:58:12 · answer #5 · answered by baby n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not me
But I feel bad for u.
Girls are good at these **** things, u know...
Just dont take her calls ...even when u badly want her, once u will start ignoring her she will realize ur importance
Let her know what she is and what she deserves!
May God help u, Good luck
2007-02-16 02:53:45 · answer #6 · answered by Jill-mommy of a cute lil fellow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man i been there.she is runnin a guilt trip and talkin down to u . ya ur hurt. dont take her calls. u kno u r better than that. suck it up for those of us who failed at where ur at now
2007-02-16 02:56:54 · answer #7 · answered by big win 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there and done that--when I was 12---hey--grow up and get a grip--skip the drama---NO PITY HERE--she isn't doing it to you--you are doing it to yourself---hurts???yes, but GET OVER IT. Time is passing--stop wasting it....and STOP talking to her---God ,,get with it.
2007-02-16 02:53:23 · answer #8 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋