ok me and my girl broke up, she says she cant do it, she still says she loves me every once and a while, she says it when she feels it, sometimes she dont feel it. I know she does. When we are together she dont want me to leave and when we are apart she dont want anything to do with me. She keeps tellin me to move on and i dont need her. I truely love her, she just ended an engagement. She has been talking to another guy, i thought thats why we broke up but its not, she dont even talk to him barely now, she said he is nothing. Its been 10 days, just out the blue sometimes she will start an argument. She says really really hurtful things. I know give it time and she will miss me, i know if its meant to be it will, i feel she is pushin me away because she thinks its best for me. There is something she wont tell me. She also says im too overprotective, i was but i havnt been for like a month, people call her and im nosy always wanting to know who it is.
2007-02-15 18:39:31 · 5 answers · asked by importracer_6969 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldnt bother to ask, but when she ignores me to talk to them i would like to know, i think i deserve that. I gave her everything. She says she dont think we will get back together, she wants to but she dont think i will change. Help, what can i do, hurry cuz i may loose her
2007-02-15 18:41:49 · update #1
Why would you put yourself through that? Maybe she thinks it is best for you to end the relationship because you are too possessive and jealous. SHOW her you're not by giving her space and time that she obviously does need. Stop worrying so much about if she cares about someone else. It is her life and she will have to make the right decision on her own.
2007-02-15 18:44:27 · answer #1 · answered by Aphrodite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being nosey can push someone away. Questions can drive people crazy. I say let up and let her have her conversations and if she wants to include you in them then she will but give that to her. She probalbly loves you but doesn't like how you want to be apart of every part of her life, she probably feels that she can handle herself with no help. So let her be her and let her include you don't push yourself in otherwise you'll push her away. Just make sure you keep your feelings on the table so she knows how you feel so that she can consider them and keep your feelings in mind.
2007-02-16 02:46:25 · answer #2 · answered by lazerangel99 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She blows so hot and cold with you, it's amazing that you can keep track of her feelings for you that change like the weather.
I don't that the two of you are a good match.
2007-02-16 02:47:24 · answer #3 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't change a woman's mind.
Move on, unrequited love doesn't make you happy.
Too many women out there that will be glad to have you.
2007-02-16 02:44:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't "sometimes" love someone. It's all or nothing. She's done with you. Move on.
2007-02-16 02:45:44 · answer #5 · answered by m k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋