im having an i dentity crisis help im just a quiet girl that sits at the back of the class and is a goody goody and i tried going crazy and it made me happy until i went on the bus and was still rejected for the rest of the year6s plz i want to know what to do (we have uniform my mum wont let me die my hair with a professional or actual hair dies just lemon juice)
2007-02-15 17:55:10 · 10 answers · asked by Debs 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Hair
honey, calm down.
you're going to be okay.
just breathe, relax.
you don't have to change the way you look to be an amazing person.
just be you.
you can do anything.
this is something you're going to have to work out on your own..
good luck. i hope you find yourself. <3
2007-02-15 18:00:59 · answer #1 · answered by mica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep in mind that this is part of how your body develops. Hormones tend to do weird things to us, especially when we are maturing. What you should do is use your favorite web search engine and look up hormones.
Hormones are also responsible for the emotional changes that take place during the change from adolescent to adult. You may feel confused, have emotional outbursts, feel sad, or have strong emotions or mood that change quickly. You might be overly sensitive or easily lose your temper. There are those crazy hormones working on you again. If you feel really out of control or depressed, consult with your health care provider.
2007-02-16 02:11:07 · answer #2 · answered by Vincent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what you mean by the 'quiet' girl. i was that too. but instead of letting it affect me, i didnt care. i still dont care and im the same girl. be yourself, thats the best thing you can do, because you know what makes you happy. following the crowd or doing what they consider fun, might not be fun to you. do what you like. accessorise your clothes with belts, scarves, clips, anything. and i see nothing wrong with being a goody goody. shoot, be good all you want! it doesnt matter. stand out, for goodness sakes. dont be 'bad' like everyone else. BE YOURSELF.
2007-02-16 02:03:18 · answer #3 · answered by aphex_twin007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best advice anyone can give you is to BE yourself. I learned early on in life that you can't pretend to be someone you're NOT. Why would you want to pretend to be someone other than yourself? People will like you for who you are, not for who you PRETEND to be. And if they don't, they're not worth having around anyway. Good luck. It's tough being young.
2007-02-16 02:00:54 · answer #4 · answered by somerset_75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rebel against your parents. trust me you are only a kid once. It will make you a stronger person if you do your own thing. Don't follow the crowd and have a F**k them attitude but still respect people just as you wish to have respect.
2007-02-16 04:09:14 · answer #5 · answered by michael c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go onto www.lush.co.uk you can buy natural hair dyes on there that are 100% natural. I think you're too young to be dyeing your hair too, but if you insist then go there. I don't think you should be someone you're not just for attention either, just be you :)
Good luck.
2007-02-16 04:49:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to be social, and be yourself. Looks arn't everything, there are some nice people in the world... i know being one of them (moderately) ^_^.
2007-02-16 01:59:14 · answer #7 · answered by Captain Obvious 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get a new style...can you wear make up? ear rings? necklaces? jewlry? does yo shoes part of yo uniform?
2007-02-16 01:58:31 · answer #8 · answered by Rapper4JC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEARN to LOVE yourself
and stuff everybody else, you are the one that is important.
2007-02-16 02:01:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to bed!
2007-02-16 02:28:45 · answer #10 · answered by Stu pid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋