I have just learned that my wife has been sleeping with our pastor. What do I do??
2007-02-15 17:42:37 · 15 answers · asked by ? 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
If you can forgive her do so. But, this is the only biblical grounds for divorce. If you want the marriage to last seek professional help. But, she needs to want it as well.
2007-02-15 17:46:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are sure this is true then in church ask him in fromt of all the others if he intends to marry your wife so you will know if you hould leave or not.
I bet he will deny everything and then I will bet that many already know about it and now he is a liar as well.
Don't take it to searious because if that is what she wants to do then you can't stop her. deside what you want then do it. No don't shoot her. Either make a life for you or stay and share. She might let you share with the pastors wife as well.
I know I make lite light of it and that is because I have veen around many years and have been through this kind of thing more than once. I don't get angry after the first time and life does go on. Plenty out there to play with.
2007-02-15 18:10:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report this to the deacon of the church, since the deacons, elders and pastor pray for one another and need to address this problem. As for you, you need to pray to God for answers. To forgive her and resolve this with your wife is probably the best, but if you cannot stay with her after you two try to resolve it, the bible does teach that this is the only reason that divorce is ok. No matter what, I would go to a Christian counselor together or even by myself to heal. God be with you.
2007-02-15 17:56:40 · answer #3 · answered by connie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront them both and report it to the officials that are over the pastor. It needs to be stopped in its tracks and the pastor needs to be removed from ministry. Then get qualified, professional counseling.
2007-02-15 17:47:59 · answer #4 · answered by wd 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Blackmail?
Then nail the pastor's wife, and the female half of the choir.
2007-02-15 17:48:02 · answer #5 · answered by Devil in Details 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
A month ago you asked this question,
"You have a set-up date, you know who the guy is. He is suppose to pick you up to go out. He shows up butt naked and no clothes with him (in car or whatever). What do you do?
Seriously, I have a date and a bunch of my friends are daring me to do this. They are saying she will love it, but I don't know...."
Are you trying to pull the wool over our eyes?
2007-02-15 18:06:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anthony Stark 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Divorce her cheating behind and be sure to tell your entire church how Mr God Man is committing adultery. He doesn't need to be preaching the words he can't even be bothered to obey.
2007-02-15 17:47:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I will not joke around. See someone who can give you expert advice. I do not want to mislead you.
2007-02-15 17:45:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forgive her if and only if she apologies and promises to go to marriage counseling. If not then leave immediately.
Leave your church no matter what.
2007-02-15 17:53:13 · answer #9 · answered by Alan 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would seek legal counsel---find out what your rights are, and how to proceed.
2007-02-15 17:58:25 · answer #10 · answered by dumb-blonde 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋