2007-02-15 17:36:00 · 20 answers · asked by calgary shoes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
YES!!!!! This world would be a joyful place if others treated their bodies with the same respect as fiancee has. Not only because the Bible kinda says that you shouldn't have sex with anyone other than husband or wife, you are to wait until you are actually husband and wife meaning married.
As for Mr. Danger up there his answer is totally the description of his name. What is he talking aboout all null in void once you turn 19. It is people like him and worse than him that we have so many illnesses, homlessness, runaways and hungry people in this world. We are such dire straights at this time. OVERPOPULATION which could not happen very easily if everyone waited until they were married. Instead we have 16 year olds having their 2nd babies: and the first baby is somewhere in the system already. OOPS got hot on the soap box there. But yes again a person could be a virgin as long as he or she wants.
2007-02-15 18:03:27 · answer #1 · answered by therealskeptic@sbcglobal.net 2 · 4⤊ 3⤋
Sure it's possible , But understand that anybody that waited that long has some real serious sexual issues. You better ask yourself whether you are truly prepared to deal with those issues for the rest of your life before you actually marry her.
The idea of saving ones self for marriage ,having served it's sociological purpose,becomes null and void on ones 19th birthday.
To the newest member of my fan club ; therealsk
Remember that "History without context is crap" -me
At the time that at the time the idea of a woman being a virgin until she got married was instituted as a sociological norm women/ girls were getting married as early as 12 or 13 . I am not talking about Biblical times , It was happening in the mid 19th Century. [or if your Jerry Lee Lewis in the mid 20th Century ] It was therefore very important to the society at large that that young women have a husband to support her before she brought children into this world. That makes sense. There is real world practical value to that position.
There is no real world practical value to remaining a virgin until you are 28.
So say you're sorry
2007-02-15 17:48:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
It's kinda weird, but it's possible. What kind of person is she and how many relationships has she been in in the past? If she's like outgoing and has dated a lot of people, then I would think it less likely she's really a virgin. It is possible though.
2007-02-15 17:44:31 · answer #3 · answered by dc87 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why couldn't she be a virgin at 28? Not everyone wants to have sex before marriage and 28 is not that old. Consider yourself lucky that she wanted to save herself for marriage.
2007-02-15 17:44:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have to congratulate to your fiance for keeping her virginity until she is at least 28.
As for wondering if it is possible or not, why not? Haven't you heard of the Amish people? They keep themselves in a pure state until after marriage and there is no age limit on their lives, is there?
No! People who keep themselves in a virginal state until after they get married shows that they have a lot of integrity.
Kudos to your fiancee.
2007-02-15 17:59:26 · answer #5 · answered by Double J 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Of course. I live in Utah, where a lot people are very religious and virgins until they get married. Of course people here get married at a younger age...but that's beside the point. The answer is yes. She must be a very good girl..you should hang on to her! Congrats on the engagement!
2007-02-15 17:46:11 · answer #6 · answered by Jenn B. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In this day and age, it is possible. Many young (and especially Christian)women are taking a vow of sorts in their teens to remain celibate until marriage. It is difficult in today's society for young women to remain strong and not give in. If she has made it to 28 this is something to be proud of. If she has not, don't stone her, but understand.
If you are concerned, talk to her. Marriage is a constant negotiation and discussion. Build the marriage by talking openly and honestly.
Hope this helps.
2007-02-15 17:46:36 · answer #7 · answered by wedding planner tx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked her? I was 21 and a virgin and my husband was 25 and a virgin when we got married.
2007-02-15 19:03:23 · answer #8 · answered by Marci S 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it is. Are you doubting her for some reason? And is it that important to you if she is or isn't? If you're doubting her, maybe you feel like you don't trust her and if you don't then why are you marrying someone you don't trust? You need to talk to your fiancee and figure things out.
2007-02-15 17:46:32 · answer #9 · answered by Wishing on a Dream 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes and No.. It depends what family she coming from, what believes she has.. what is her culture (nationality)<<< you may argue with last one but that is the truth believe me. And last but not least it depends who she is. Every thing is possible. Oh ya let me add one More thing...and be care full too those days you can't trust no one with virginity. There are so many ways........ ;)
2007-02-15 17:46:51 · answer #10 · answered by Stranger 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋