I have a former friend who is very close to me coz we're both the same outcast before.I've always very loyal and encouraging friend to her,I think we would be the best friend.But boy I was so wrong,i never realize that evrything she said was such a lie,she always narrates a lot of hard to believe story and always backstabbs other person's (especially my classmates) negative attitiude whenever she's talking with me.Now,I have lost a couple of guy friends,coz i believe in everything lies she have said.To make it worse,some boys are avoiding me and think that I'm the same weird lier like her,coz I've hang out with her so much for conversation.What should I do now????I'm so confused....:( :(
2007-02-15 17:35:11 · 4 answers · asked by foreigner_lady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Start getting away from her and proving to other people what a cool person you are and that you're not like her.
In the mean time, call her out on all her bullsh!t.
2007-02-15 17:40:40 · answer #1 · answered by Havana Brown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's a liar, she's no friend. So tell her she's not your friend anymore. Continue saying hello to your friends as usual. Are you sure they're avoiding you? If so, it would be good to go up to them and ask if there has been a misunderstanding. If they are avoiding you, they will probably give a reason. Then you can defend yourself. Don't talk trash about her when you talk with them though. Just say, "I realized she's not the person I thought she was, so we're no longer friends."
2007-02-16 01:45:17 · answer #2 · answered by itry007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest with her, and tell her it's best for you not to hang out with her untill she stops her lies. let others no as well that your nothng like her, its the best way to do this, or if you think this to be mean then just inform her you would like to be alone. good luck
2007-02-16 01:39:51 · answer #3 · answered by louise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find new friends. real friends will not act like that.
2007-02-16 01:39:27 · answer #4 · answered by OR 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋