My husband and I love our yorkie soo much and I mean A LOT! We've had her for a couple of months now and I've been staying at home to watch her all day,b/c we can't stand leaving her alone...its just breaks our hearts s my hubby suggested I stay at home and not work to take care of her.Sounds like I have a child but its really a dog,lol.I just wanted to know if this is normal?or are we just crazy in love?
2007-02-15 16:17:49 · 15 answers · asked by Jen 3 in Pets ➔ Dogs
I would love to stay home with my *furkids*!!!!
I think many of us feel that way.
You are sooo lucky....and your husband is a keeper!!!!!
2007-02-15 16:30:55 · answer #1 · answered by KarenS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it possible to get another dog for her to play with? You would be surprised how well dogs do having a friend to hang out and play with. By no means should this substitute your playing and spending time with the dog, but it is a great alternative to leaving a dog home alone. How about working part time? Is that an option? If you stay at home all day with her, she will be used to having you around every minuet, and she will suffer separation anxiety when you go away for a weekend, or on vacation
2007-02-16 00:31:44 · answer #2 · answered by Snow Dawg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I already have 1 chihuahua male(he's fixed). And he actually has never been left home since I've had him for 7 yr.s I actually took all online classes when I got him because I was still in highschool at the time. But now I wish I would've left him home for some things like grocery shopping because he get's seperation anxiety and it's only with me when he's like this. So I also have to find grocery stores that allow him(dogs) because I can't even leave him in the car alone without him freaking out! It's just absouletly terrible and I regret every time I took him with me everywhere. Like if you'll be gone for 3 or more hours then yes take her. But if not I'd say don't stay home or take her because she too could end up like my baby boy. And it's really hard trying to take a Chihuahua on tour( my fiance' is unfortunetly a GUITARIST).
2007-02-16 00:29:43 · answer #3 · answered by frankaalex1 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I had a friend who took a full year off from working to properly raise and train her GSD. I see nothing wrong with it and in the end, it's better for the dog. We just recently got a puppy last summer, but I am home during the day and hubby is home at nite, otherwise, we would have waited to get a new pup. They're a lot of work the first year!
2007-02-16 00:21:40 · answer #4 · answered by Shadow's Melon 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it is crazy, lol. I understand how you feel, I have a cat whom I love like a child. And I did stay at home for a few months, leaving my job, when he was sick and he really needed me here. But when he is OK healthwise, remember that he is not a baby, he can take care of himself, and he must learn to be alone too, gradually, otherwise he will have separation anxiety when you'll have to leave at some point.
2007-02-16 00:54:29 · answer #5 · answered by cpinatsi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not "crazy in love." Just crazy.
It's okay to love a pet, but let's face it. A dog is able to be alone for short bouts throughout the day. Sure, they do need attention and a lot of exercise, but quit your job for the dog? My opinion? Not worth it.
But let's just give you the benefit of the doubt and say that, when you work, you are gone for long hours--unable to come home at lunch to let out the dog. Then I say, your decision sounds more logical. I love dogs and think they should have the best care possible.
But please, don't mold your life around your dog. Allow your dog to become a part of Your life.
2007-02-16 00:48:58 · answer #6 · answered by JJo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if financially you can stay at home and watch the dog, then do so, but its not necessary to do so. Its a bit on the extreme side but most people without children tend to treat there pets as if they were children. That dog will be one lucky and spoiled baby if you do.
Just be careful if you your husband suddenly get granted with a real baby, your dog being the pampered one may not like the idea of you changing priorities on it!!!
2007-02-16 00:25:13 · answer #7 · answered by I luv Pets 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I stay home with my dogs too,,all 15 of them,,lol.I dont think its a good idea to leave them alone,,they are like children.
2007-02-16 00:20:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
No you sound like a Yorkie mom. This breed is notorious for training their owners to get exactly what they want. Wish I had the luxury of quitting my job to care for the dog!
2007-02-16 00:35:00 · answer #9 · answered by lizzy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I don't think this is normal BUT you are both in agreement so who cares what anybody else thinks. If you ever tire of this you could get her a friend so she won't be lonely.
It's great to see a loyal loving dog owner :-)
2007-02-16 00:26:57 · answer #10 · answered by me 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say crazy. My husband would say, if you can afford it, do it!
They have some great services now - doggy daycares, or pet sitters that would actually come to your home, entertain/walk daily while you're out.
I say keep working -- give the pup the best and come home for lunch every day!
2007-02-16 00:21:36 · answer #11 · answered by sgirl 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋