Hello lill player,
First, you ask a girl out to dinner and a movie and get to know them better. If you like them, ask them out again. If you don't like them, ask someone else. The more that you get to know each other the better chance of getting a girlfriend.
Also, you need to check out the Tom Leykis radio show to learn more about what you should do. You definitely need to learn a little Leykis-101 to get more women in your life. Find out if this show is broadcast in your area. Here's his web site:
http://www.blowmeuptom.com
I hope that this helps you. Good luck and happy hunting.
--Rick
2007-02-15 16:15:51
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answer #1
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answered by rickrudge 6
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1. ATTRACTION ISN'T A CHOICE.
In other words, we humans don't CHOOSE who we
feel attracted to... and, JUST AS IMPORTANT, who
we DON'T feel attracted to.
ATTRACTION happens for reasons all its own, and
these reasons have evolved inside of us over time.
While culture, peer pressure, and trends can
shape our natural drives slightly, the
FUNDAMENTALS NEVER CHANGE.
2. MEN ARE ATTRACTED MORE TO LOOKS, WOMEN ARE
ATTRACTED MORE TO PERSONALITY AND CHARACTER.
Most men can't believe it, but to a woman your
looks just aren't that important.
Sure, if you don't take care of yourself, don't
bathe, and let two of your front teeth rot out you
might scare away the ladies.
But for the most part, women will look past
just about ANY physical issue if she feels that
all-important emotion called ATTRACTION.
And ATTRACTION is created by your PERSONALITY.
For women, ATTRACTION is triggered by male
qualities like: Dominance, Humor,
Unpredictability, Adventure, Strength, Sexual
Awareness, Indifference, etc.
3. WOMEN AREN'T ATTRACTED TO WUSSIES.
'Nuff said.
4. WOMEN TEST MEN BECAUSE THEY HAVE TO.
When a woman begins to feel a romantic
connection with you, she faces an interesting
problem...
How can she tell for sure if your character and
personality are the way you're expressing them?
As we all know, men and women BOTH show off and
exaggerate their "good sides" while downplaying
and hiding their negative traits at first. This is
why men suck-in their guts, brag, and show off...
and why women wear makeup, do their hair, and shop
all day for their clothes.
If you were a woman, and you needed to figure
out if a man was showing you his "true self", how
would you do it?
What if you had to know FOR SURE?
The only way is to TEST on an ongoing basis,
and to keep escalating the tests to be sure.
Put all this together (with a bunch of other
factors that I don't have time to talk about) and
you get an interesting problem that women face...
A woman responds to a man that stirs her
emotions, and causes her to want him so badly that
she'll put aside all logic and reason to be with
him.
But what if the man is just pretending? What if
he only SEEMS to be this confident, funny, manly-
man on the outside, but he's actually a push-over
WUSS-BAG that is insecure and makes up for it by
acting like a tough guy?
Or worse yet, what if he's a WUSS all the time,
and she just happened to settle for him because he
was available and persistent... and she didn't
have anything better going on at the time... but
now she has other options?
Well, these are the kinds of situations, that
when played out, lead to the story that I started
with... a man begging a woman to stay... pleading
with her to explain what he has to do to keep her.
Of course, this is all WUSSY behavior, and it
only serves to put the final nail in the coffin,
convincing the object of your desire that you are
ABSOLUTELY, beyond the shadow of any doubt, a
Wuss.
So what's the answer?
The answer is to NEVER BE THOUGHT OF AS A WUSSY
AGAIN!
2007-02-15 16:14:00
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answered by Scott L 2
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Get a look at your personality. Try to fit in with the girl you like. Like you know take care of your dressing , hair, way you talk.
U dont want a jerk to be ur girlfriend, so do they dont want a jerk to be their bf.
Everthing counts.
2007-02-15 16:09:28
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answer #3
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answered by Anne H 3
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First you get to know her see if she is the the right girl. Then you say if you could be friends. If she all ready has someone find someone that is better than her or you can make her jelous but to get over her get a new girl.
2007-02-15 16:11:56
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answered by charles m 1
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go up to a girl you are interested, talk to her for a bit, make her laugh, leave a good impression, ask for her number, ask her if she want to go out sometimes. look her in the eye during the conversation
and likely it will work 7 times out of 10, unless you are a bad conversationist
2007-02-15 16:08:40
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answer #5
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answered by Curious G 2
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If you aren't smart enough to figue it out maybe you should go down on the corner and rent one.
2007-02-15 16:19:26
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answered by bill b 5
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talk to a girl you like, communicate with her, ask her about herself...her interests, her family, her thoughts and feelings... dont try to pretend to be something youre not and dont be too forward...
2007-02-15 16:08:50
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answer #7
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answered by Jadey 2
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Take her out on a date and ask her.
2007-02-15 16:07:29
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answer #8
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answered by laura n 3
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Pleaze tell me when you get a good answer.
2007-02-15 16:09:07
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answer #9
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answered by B-Boy Objective 2
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well having an avitar that looks like that and the name "lill player" won't help much! lol
2007-02-15 16:08:25
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answered by tina 3
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