we have been best friends since 6th grade( im in 9th ) and my friend is a school girl( tell you the truth not so pretty ) always cares about school work and when i tell her to go shoping toghter she says " no sorry homework" and some ugly stupid guy asks her out one day... she says yes...( i do not trust this guy i think hes using her )and suddenly shes cocky and always talking about him( like i care)and she gose shoping with HIM but during lunch she crawls to me......so i start ignoring her and not listing to her and hanging out with other friends beacause she is so ANNOYING.....am i doing something bad?
2007-02-15 16:00:21 · 4 answers · asked by GeeksAreFreaks 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there are other ways of handling this situation... and pushing her out of your life is not the best way. you need to talk to her and tell her how you feel about how she's changed and neglecting you for some guy...communication is the key here
2007-02-15 16:04:27 · answer #1 · answered by Jadey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most of the things you have said about your friend is bad.
Who cares if she isnt drop dead gorgeous, are you a super model?
And why do you have to point out the guy is ugly who asked her out? Maybe she thinks hes adorable, or maybe hes very sweet to her and looks dont matter.
If shes hurting your feelings by not going shopping with you, tell her. But shes happy in her relationship and until the guy does something bad, you should respect that and be happy for her.
Sounds more like you are jealous to me. Be her friend, be nice to her and be there for her, dont ignore her because she isnt doing what YOU think she should do.
2007-02-16 00:07:58 · answer #2 · answered by independent101 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you to are probably just growing appart it happens alot when friends enter high school together like you may be on your way to becoming popular and you don't want her holding you back but at the end of the day if your a true friend bla bla bla lol
2007-02-16 00:06:57 · answer #3 · answered by William S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no
2007-02-16 00:04:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋