I just want to know your opinion. I can't answer it by myself.
2007-02-15 15:57:05 · 12 answers · asked by Jeanus 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just want yo know. I don't really know the answer.
2007-02-15 16:00:36 · update #1
I just want yo know. I don't really know the answer.
2007-02-15 16:02:06 · update #2
Both are unbalanced. If you love that person, and the other dont, its no good. If the other person loves you but you dont, sooner or later the relationship is going to blow up. None of these are good.
2007-02-15 16:06:03 · answer #1 · answered by El guapo 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Interesting question. I'm not sure anyone can love you too deeply, and if you think they do then you are obviously bothered by their infatuation and you are not returning the sentiment. Therefore, I would say the preference would be with the one person whom you loved so truly, yet then the question becomes do they love you truly as well? Or does it matter? If you are truly in love with someone and they do not return the feeling, you are probably more miserable than with the person who loves you too much. In relationships it seems that one person will love the other more, but successful relationships have a solid and equal amount of love as a base and then more from one of the partners. So, back to the question at hand, I still have to go with the person you loved so truly.
2007-02-15 16:08:54 · answer #2 · answered by jilando 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, this is very interesting question.
Personally, when someone loves me too deeply, he sometimes gets to attach himself to me too much and he gets to be kinda boring since he always wants to be by me and will always want to talk or something.
He can also be obsessive in his love.
I have a kinda wild heart, and would prefer someone who seems to love me but not toooo deeply to the extent of it being an obsession.
On the other hand, I tend to do the same thing to those I truely love, so I guess i'm the proverbial pot calling the kettle black.
But well I guess I'd prefer the person who loves me too deeply, since i can be assured of his love for me and I can grow to love him, but when the love is coming from my side only, I'll have to rethink and see if I'm wasting my love since it might not be reciprocated.
2007-02-15 16:05:20 · answer #3 · answered by ggoldiee23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you get lots of answers. It takes a lot of view points to decide what attitude will be the best for you.
I'd like to have it both ways. If you have too pick one or the other, it could be very sticky. If I loved someone "too deeply" I may have misjudged the man, not knowing we weren't a good match. I did experience having someone who was passionate about me, that did not appeal to me. I felt badly for him because I couldn't make myself like him romantically. A few years passed without me seeing him anywhere, and then I ran into he and his wife. So, I was able to learn that he had found someone who really was the right person for him. That made me happy for them both.
2007-02-15 16:07:23 · answer #4 · answered by Jeanne B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
truly and deeply go hand in hand when it comes to love, because love is love is love. I can't even explain what I'm trying to say, because when I try to put into sentences how much I love my boyfriend, I studder, stumble & find myself at a loss of words... and that's what love is. I don't want the person who loves me too deeply, and I don't want the person who loves me so truly. I want the guy who loves me for me; forever... It doesn't matter what kind of adjective you put in front of it... all that matters is you and that other person.
2007-02-15 16:08:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'll choose the one i love truly, i don't think i could be be happy being with the one who loves me deeply but i don't even like, Sacrifice pay but it does not give the genuine joy and happiness i crave.
I've always been praying to God, never allow me to fall for someone who is not Your choice for me. So, when i'm close to falling, i begin to have spiritual check up and decide if the feeling which is beginning to flourish within me should be discarded or accepted.
2007-02-15 16:04:50 · answer #6 · answered by zyzzy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I constantly bear in mind Dorothy Parker's view factor: "each love's the affection in the previous. In a duller gown." i comprehend many people who've been in love greater beneficial than as quickly as. One's 'previous love' is often unforgettable, yet new human beings to fall in love with do come alongside. In my journey, the sentiments of affection would be diverse with each and each new individual, yet they are the two superb and actual :-)
2016-10-02 05:37:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My true love dumped me so badly and I ignored the one who loved me deeply-so I say deeply
2007-02-15 16:01:20 · answer #8 · answered by vox179 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone that loved me too deeply. i have been the person that loved too much and i was taken advantage of because of that. but i would never do that to someone else. i know what it feels like. and i would like to know what it feels like to be loved so unconditionally, like i loved someone who is unmentionable.
2007-02-15 16:01:33 · answer #9 · answered by pikachu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guy wouldnt go out with me because he said that I would love him too much.It really hurt my feelings.And,alot of heartbreaks have came my way lately,so I say screw both of them.
2007-02-15 16:06:10 · answer #10 · answered by Baby<3Britt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋