depression and my best friend please help!?

Question

Me and my best frnd have had the best relationship ever......we've known eachother for a long time and we have been so tight......now that im depressed, i dont like talking to her anymore or telling her how i feel or anything....she has been there for me, but sometimes she gives me my space....i know shes always going to be there for me, but i feel like shes changed.......shes always with other girls now and shes getting very close with them......it makes me more depressed to see me loosing or already have lost my best friend, or that i have been replaced with someone else.......how am i supposed to deal with that on top of my depression? shes very considerate but she also does not fully understand depression......like she thinks its easy to snap out of it or just talk to her............?

Answer 1

the same thing happened to me and i dont think i want to tell you the whole story on here so email me [e-mail] or message on here.

but basicaly some people will not understand what your going through. it sucks for us, and i know you wish she could understand, but i hope and pray she never has to. it sucks to be us sometimes, btu that is what makes us so strong. email me girlie. i think i can help. best wishes, and prayers!

Answer 2

You haven't lost her friendship.. she is probably giving you more space so you can pull out of it. You need to be able to help yourself before she can do anything for you. It can also be emotionally draining for her too. Her putting all hear energy into making you feel better is pretty tiresome. Although she loves you, she will also do what makes her happy. I'm not trying to make it sound like you don't make her happy.. but her worry about you will probably be causing her strain too.
My friend got very depressed and I spent 3yrs trying to do anything in my power to make her happy. I snapped because everything I did for her didn't matter. She appreciated that I was there for her.. but to watch her get more and more depressed while I was doing everything I could to make her feel better.. it was very hard on me. I started giving her space because I accepted defeat. I still told her I loved her all the time.. and I was still there for her.. but I drifted away a little.
Your friend isn't doing it to be mean or hurtful. It is just very hard to watch a loved one go through so much torment without trying to get better herself. Depression does go away if you take care of yourself and accept that you can change it.

Answer 3

ANY FEAR CAN BE TIDE OVER BY SINCERE MEDITATION AND PRAYER

Your prayer is from your heart. Further You must have to understood the fact that God is present in our heart. This can be realised in meditation. Further we are the creation of our own destiny. As per Hindu sacred religion, we carry all good and bad deeds life after life. There is no end unless we pray for unification of self with the divineliness.
Hence there is always a possible way to complete mergence with God in this life by a simple and wonderful meditation

Answer 4

try not to be depressed or jealous of what she is doing. you will have many many friends come and go in your lifetime. the most changes take place when we are in our teens..but as we get a bit older, we get friends that are "keepers". be patient.
one thing your friend is wrong about though is, you can't "snap out" of depression. she needs to do some reading up on the topic.

Answer 5

Think of others not yourself. your Friend is trying not to upset you, but your current condition does not allow you to rationalize it, so you are jealous too. Your Friend has not abandoned you you have left her, she is healthy and needs companionship you shun it, but that is part of the problem, you are your own worst enemy. She is there r you when your ready, but right now you are not ready.