Im 17 Im a nice guy I try to be nice to everyone I meet, I think Im good looking (not to be conceited or anything cause Im not ). Im smart I can have fun but also go into deep conversations with anyone, I try to help anyone that needs my help even if they dont ask for it....but there is only one thing. Its not that I try to be nice but I am, I mean I cant be mean really. and for some reason Im single ...I go to the mall alone I see girls looking at me and at school too ...so please tell me what am I doing wrong ?
2007-02-15 15:53:00 · 7 answers · asked by Juan B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"SINGLE"? AT 17?
Don't worry about it. You are young. I was a late bloomer too. They always said I was a "nice guy". Well, at least I stayed out of trouble! Te he he he he...
Seriously! Sometimes when you focus on it you can't make it happen. Just relax and don't worry about it. Then, POW! when you least expect it, love comes calling. I have seen this happen a lot. Contrary to what some say, the nicest girls do NOT chase down nice guys. Most girls don't even notice "nice guys" AT FIRST. They likely will notice the more aggressive "bad boys". Those fellas tends to lose out in the end as girls mature and start thinking about more solid relationships, security and the future. "NICE GUYS" do not finish last in that arena!
Keep being yourself, a nice guy, and take your time. Try approaching a few. You will be surprised what a bit of boldness will do. Girls aren't generally interested in a relationship until they know you are.
2007-02-15 17:45:23 · answer #1 · answered by Yowdy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... from a girls perspective... Being nice is the best attribute that a guy could have. What I htink that you need to do... is that when you see girls staring at you... go up and talk to them! girls just want a guy who loves them back.
2007-02-15 15:59:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's out there waiting for you Buddy, She might be thinking the same thing about herself. Let time bring you two together!! and you will see that the wait and anticipation was truly worth it!!
2007-02-15 15:58:31 · answer #3 · answered by Breann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwww-I have no idea...maybe you should start striking up conversations with new people, just meet more people...I don't know I'm sick of being single too so we should have a "We Suck" Party or something...
2007-02-15 16:00:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some balls. go talk to a girl you are interested, ask her to go on a dinner.
its that simple my friend
2007-02-15 15:57:32 · answer #5 · answered by Curious G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude! u sure u aint ugly?
2007-02-15 15:57:20 · answer #6 · answered by Monica J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you find out let me no. i am sick and tired of being the lozer. not that you're one.
2007-02-15 15:56:59 · answer #7 · answered by alien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋