I really love him a lot and don't want to lose him at any cost......he loves me too and we have been going out for the last 2 and a half years. he still wnts to get married to me so what might have gone wrong? How can i resolve this and win him back?
2007-02-15 15:50:03 · 12 answers · asked by faseehar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he still wants to marry you, then I don't think that he likes this girl you're mentioning. You should ask the question: What makes you think that he likes this girl?
I think that you're thinking this thought, because you're a bit insecure with your relationship. I think that you should have a good talk with your b/f so that both of you clarify all the things. You should make it clear to him that from the way he's acting with this girl, he's leaving you the impression that he likes her. But tell him also that you're not thinking that he's cheating or he will cheat on you, but that's the impression that he's leaving on you. Cause if he thinks that you don't trust him, he will start not trusting you, he will be frustrated and he will have his own reactions against you.
Hope this helps hun and Good Luck dear.
2007-02-15 18:09:01 · answer #1 · answered by Falcon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, you think! don't. if you know something that is different. nothing has to be wrong for someone to "like" someone eles, if your with someone long enough, it will happen to both of you, more then once. It is how you/they handle it that matters, if he is smart he will stay away from her. You really cant reslove this, and if you push too hard, and freak out you will lose him. You could try talking to him, be supportive, but not pushy, and if he wants to talk then fine. You could also back away, I know it seems like the wrong thing to do, but it almost always works.
2007-02-15 16:03:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you may be growing apart----this is common and if this is the case then you will need to let him go and move on with your life and find a new romance.
2007-02-15 15:56:25 · answer #3 · answered by EZMZ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both need to have a talk with each other to figure out what the problem is, because maybe you're just assuming things. good luck :)
2007-02-15 15:55:37 · answer #4 · answered by ~Val~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to get married to you, he probably doesnt like the girl(In the way you think), if he was cheating he would say he wouldnt want to get married.
2007-02-15 15:53:34 · answer #5 · answered by Jeff w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BEST THING YOU CAN DO IS CONFRONT HIM.... COMUNICATION IS VERY IMPORTANT IN ANY RELATIONSHIP... IF YOU HAVE ANY DOUBTS, JUST ASK HIM... AND LET HIM KNOW HOW U FEEL... ESPECIALLY IF YOU GUYS ARE THINKING ABOUT GETTING MARRIED... IF YOU CANT COMMUNICATE THEN THE MARRIAGE WONT LAST....SO GOOD LUCK HUN... HOPE EVERYTHING WORKS OUT FOR YOU
2007-02-15 15:55:32 · answer #6 · answered by ~ * ~713PR!NC3$$713~ * ~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are still together then dont do anything but if you are
not after 2 years there not much you do to get him back. if he
want to get back with you, he would have done that. time to
let go. because he might have all ready.
2007-02-15 15:55:10 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he truly loves you and want to spend the rest of his life with you then let him be just flirt your way to him. . just remember he is yours and nobody can have him but you and he loves you no matter what fine girl walkes by he will always be thinking of you! dont stress honey =]
2007-02-15 15:55:35 · answer #8 · answered by asdfghjkl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the other girl, what's the point of being with a boyfriend who no longer loves u? and don't nag him too much, he might get annoy and try to hurt you.
2007-02-15 15:54:45 · answer #9 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you just think he likes someone maybe ur head is just playing games. im sure if he truely loves you there is nothing to worry about.
2007-02-15 15:54:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋