My ex-boyfriend and my friend are perfect for eachother and i dont know what i should do HELP!!!
2007-02-15 15:48:22 · 11 answers · asked by gigi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is a little weird, but if you are ok with it and they like each other then ok.
2007-02-15 15:50:42 · answer #1 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U do need help if u think ur ex should date ur friend. It will never work because it's gonna get to u to see them together and if they become closer then u and he it's really gonna bug ya. If she's any kind of friend she's not gonna like the idea. Why do u want this to happen with the two of them. I can't tell u how many times I have rad on this site about friendships breaking up because a friend is now dating a friends ex or a friend who's mate made a pass at the mates friend and it hurts no matter if the friend gave in or was upset.
DON'T DO IT SWEETIE THIS KIND OF THING NEVER REALLY WORKS.
U will always wonder about the two of them and u may even want him back and he will not want to come back because he wants only her. And whenevr she talks about them two of them it will bother u so u may want to rethink this
2007-02-15 23:55:52 · answer #2 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would break my heart if my boyfriend broke up with me for my best friend, especially If i realised they were perfect for eachother. I don't know though. I put myself(& my bf) in situations I read about, then get all torn up over it. But I always forget that sircumstances are probally different. You two obviously aren't in love, and even though it may hurt, you seem okay with it. She shouldn't date him even if everybody IS okay and dandy with it cuz thats pretty much the number one rule between best friends ... You can't date the friends ex, no matter WHAT, it's just wrong. But idk, give it time, don't jump into things too fast.
2007-02-16 00:01:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your okay with it, then tell your friend that you think that they should date. Tell her that things didn't work out for you two but it doesn't mean they can't work out for them. I married my best friends ex-boyfriend. And me and her remain BF's.
2007-02-15 23:54:46 · answer #4 · answered by justbnlazy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave it alone. if they were meant to be together then they will get together, but you shouldn't set them up with each other. cuz ONE you might end up getting jealous (even though you don't think you will now) and you will have noone to blame but yourself for the situation. and TWO he just got done breaking up with you, why would he want to hop back into another relationship? and THREE it could ruin your friendship and FOUR it makes you look kinda stupid
2007-02-15 23:55:32 · answer #5 · answered by cuteness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not do anything, just take it slow and see how it goes
if they are to get together then it would be the best plan not
for you to be the one that does it. just in case things dont work
out.
2007-02-15 23:52:21 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gigi you should never allow your best friend do out with your ex-bf that's the rule weather you are with him or not , she never suppose to know how it is to be with him only you
2007-02-15 23:53:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to respect your self and recover your auotostima,tis tim pass smoose but you don know what will happen in the next time
2007-02-15 23:54:35 · answer #8 · answered by osoris h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's fine to introduce ur former bf to ur friends if u think they're good together, but if there's problems then they might blame it on you, aside from that it's fine
2007-02-15 23:52:51 · answer #9 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think you are over him and think you can handle that your bestfriend should go out with him i dont think anything would be wrong if you were ok with it! if your ok with it its all good!
2007-02-15 23:50:22 · answer #10 · answered by asdfghjkl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋