Both of my relationships came from girls who went after me and were assertive. It ended up being a mistake because I wasn't excited about them. I am pretty sure every girl I have kissed - she was the one to kiss me.... yeah that is true... wow! Anyway, I am starting to really believe that it works out better if the guy does the chasing. I guess I should start going after girls I really like. Even if they don't show a ton of interest I may win them over. I do have a lot of experience dating. But like I said, not a lot of great experiences in relationships I was excited about. So I think I would know when I am coming on too strong. But girls, you don't mind if a guy tries to get: to know you; your number; win you over....etc... Even if he doesnt' excite you at first he could possible win you over. And if he doesn't..... well, its sweet he tried right?????
2007-02-15 15:48:00 · 6 answers · asked by lend322 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think either way.... it would be fine.... but in your case... I think that you should go after a girl if you like her... why not!? Love gos both ways you know!
2007-02-15 15:51:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUH of course you should be the one chasing after the girls-what is with guys these days anyway?!! Girls are not supposed to be the ones asking the guys out it's the other way around. Jeez. And yeah-I think it's sweet when a guy tries to get to know me and yes it is possible for a girl to not really like you at first then change her mind about you later. That happens when she gets to actually know you!
2007-02-15 23:56:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only do we not mind it its almost still expected. A real man will pursue you and insisit thats just what guys want to do and you are proving it through your message. Good luck!
2007-02-15 23:53:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like being chased be a man not like crazt stalker or anything but it is nice to have a men after you. woman like playing hard to get that way they dont seem so easy
2007-02-15 23:56:36 · answer #4 · answered by Andrea 14369 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, thats fine.
2007-02-16 00:00:50 · answer #5 · answered by iyalcf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, good idea.
2007-02-15 23:51:20 · answer #6 · answered by nobudE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋