is it possible for a person to find other people attratacitive and still remain faithfull to a long term relationship
2007-02-15 15:47:57 · 6 answers · asked by lewismcneillis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
umm yeah... I find lots of people attractive (johnny depp namely :P) and I'm completely faithful to my fiance of 5 years... being attracted to someone doesn't mean you have to jump on them and cheat...
2007-02-15 15:51:12 · answer #1 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I'm married and I still see lots of guys who I think are cute. I'm starting to realize that being in love with someone and/or being married to someone doesn't mean that automatically they are the only person in the world you are attracted to. What it does mean is that you (hopefully) have such a special and strong bond with them that you would never act on your attraction for someone else. So the challenge (well, one of the challenges) of marriage or any sort of long-term relationship is to stay close enough to the one you really love that you won't ever be seriously tempted by someone else.
2007-02-15 23:55:38 · answer #2 · answered by cg17 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is possible to appreciate fine physical qualities of another person, as long as it doesn't become an object of desire or lust. As long as you are okay with her looking at other men, you may feel peace in your heart.
2007-02-15 23:55:11 · answer #3 · answered by wassupmang 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely-we are all human.
because spontaneity is what makes this world turn...
No one said you had to touch-just admire.
The question was find attractive not do you jump in the sack with mr.attractive
2007-02-16 00:01:49 · answer #4 · answered by priscilla l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yes. Just because you get married (or are in a relationship)doesn't mean you go blind. It just means you'll be (or should be) faithful.
2007-02-15 23:51:26 · answer #5 · answered by Just Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes when im ina relationship i see some fine guy and think he is hott its no crime! but just remember who you love and think is hott too!
2007-02-15 23:52:24 · answer #6 · answered by asdfghjkl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋