I feel that I have change after the break up...?

Question

I alway been there for my ex, care for her, being honest with her... But she alway lied to me... We break up for 4months already... And i still keep on ask her to come back to me...
I felt that i am very irritating... I wasnt like this before... How do i move on? It seem like impossible...

Answer 1

You've always been there for her, cared for her, been honest with her. Don't you want someone to be honest with you, care for you, and be there for you in return? If she always lied to you, then that is not love, she is immature, and does not know what she wants. She just happened to steal your heart, and now you don't know how to get it back.

Getting over someone is hard, it took me 1 1/2 yrs to get over my ex. Once i did, it felt like a huge burden taken off of me and then i could finally live.

It will be hard, and it will hurt, but you need to concentrate on letting her go and focusing on someone who will love and respect you in return. Trust me she is out there! Then you'll realize while every other relationship never worked.

Answer 2

First of all why would you want someone back that always lied to you. Don't you know you should have honesty and trust in a relationship. The fact that you treated her good and she didn't appreciate it, should tell you to move on and find someone that will appreciate you for who you are and your kind ways.Move on. People who have a habit of lying all the time will continue to do, so even if you got her back, do you want to keep guessing if she's lying to you.Know that you deserve better than that, everyone deserves to be treated the way they treat others.Good luck in finding someone that will tell you the truth.

Answer 3

It does hurt. I know what you are going through, not just saying that either. Had a boy friend the same way (lied, and cheated and I still went back to him ) Try to think why you really like her. Also think of why you would want someone that is playing mind games with you. If you still are in love with her after trying to date someone new then give her a call and tell her that you still love her and you are not going to chase her, and tell her that if she wants to talk then she has to call you.

Answer 4

If it has been 4 months and you are still apart just leave her alone. Try getting a new hobby to take up more time and hang out with friends and family. Also why would you want to be with someone who lies to you and your not even together. Just leave her alone you will find someone who feels the same about you someday.

Answer 5

you are just emotionally shaken. Having someone you care for turn away shakes you up, but you need to leave her alone for a while. You broke up, which means you need space. Turn to your other friends and use them as support systems - she is likely getting frustrated that you keep begging her to come back to you. Stop giving her all the power. I think if you leave it alone, you can pick up a normal relationship in some months.

Answer 6

Nothing is impossible. You need to learn to love yourself and look out for yourself. Whats best for you. She is obviously "over it". And as long as you continue to show her you are sprung, she will continue to play games and lie because she knows she has you "like that". You always want to make yourself a challenge, when your not a challenge a girl feels like she has nothing to work for. It begins to be boring. When you get bored, thats when you start to play games. Be strong. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Good luck!

Answer 7

for starters stop asking her to come back
screw that....why would you want her back?
so year later she can do the same thing allover again?