I really really need to speak to her. I am on the verge of killing myself tonight. She broke up with me on Saturday after we got into a senseless fight. I have tried to talk to her to get some closure but she will not talk to me. I am a very nice person. I am also a woman. We were together 4 years. She beat me and cheated (in question). Through it all I loved her. I went to her apartment to talk to her today and she called the police on me. Never have I called the police on her when she has beat me. I am really really hurting right now cause despite our down times she really made me happy. She is my bestfriend. Can someone call her and say that I died or tell her that you I was taken to the hospital. I really need to see how she will react. She was kissing on me Friday and Saturday now she acts like she hates me. Please can somebody help.
2007-02-15 15:24:56 · 7 answers · asked by punkie brewster 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everybody is saying talk to family and friends. I don't have anybody to talk to. I have been praying all day. It seems like God isn't even listening and he knows my heart better than anybody else. I feel horrible. Trust me it is deeper than what meets the eye.
2007-02-15 15:39:45 · update #1
grow up and get over her.. she beat you, she cheated, she's not worth your time. end of story.
2007-02-15 15:37:57 · answer #1 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa. Hold on there skippy. First of all, there is NOBODY on this planet that is worth dying for. She may be your best friend but there is a reason for the split, it happens to the best of us. UNless of course you really did end up in the hospital, the pity route will not work for an extended period of time.
Always keep in mind the death is ALWAYS a very permanent solution to a very temporary problem. If you are still young, which I am assuming you are, you still have your whole life in front of you and you WILL find the right person for you. I know this hurts like a sonofabitch now, but it is NOT worth ending your life over.
You have friends, you have family that love you. DON'T do anything permanently stupid.
2007-02-15 23:33:58 · answer #2 · answered by H.B.K. 2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her alone. do not just give up. killing yourself is not a way of retaliation - she is not going to suddenly feel guilty cause of that. Don't just give in so easily. Let it cool off for a while. She is hurting and so are you. In a few months, the conflict will be cool and you can communicate again. Turn to your other friends for support - talk to everyone and pour your feelings out to real faces (not the computer!) Do not drink, but eat healthy things (not chocolate). Although chocolate is comforting, your body is much more comfortable with good food and that will boister your energy and mood. Hang in, and soon you will feel infinately better and be so glad you did not give up.
2007-02-15 23:30:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to seek counseling because you have some major issues to deal with. Leave your ex alone she had her reasons for ending the relationship and you're making it hard on yourself by acting in this disturbing manner. You need to seek out a trusted friend or the nearest clinic to get a referral for a counseling session because if you're talking about killing yourself you're having a lot of break up issues you need to be talking about not on here telling the members of Yahoo Answers you're about do harm on yourself. Get some help.
2007-02-15 23:36:53 · answer #4 · answered by nabdullah2001 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a grip on reality.
This is not a normal thought process!!!!!!!
You do not try and scare people you supposedly love for one thing. That is very inconsiderate.
Just let it go. Move on. Find someone new.
And don't for one minute think you are different from anyone else. We all get broken hearts. We all however do not go insane.
2007-02-15 23:33:58 · answer #5 · answered by Esperenza 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont you DARE kill yourself.
young people dont know how valuable life is.
and you are going to end up hurting other people around you.
i dont think you want to hurt people right?
well then take a deep breath and talk to her about it.
and if that doesnt work,,, then try to find someone else.
trust me, its not worth to take your life for one person that was unfaithful to you. theres better people out there for you to meet.
good luck,, and please, dont think about suicide.
2007-02-15 23:32:48 · answer #6 · answered by twistedloves 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to call a suicide crisis line, because this is not healthy! Just forget about her and think about healing yourself. Call 1800 Suicide!! Please!!! No one is worth killing yourself!
2007-02-15 23:31:10 · answer #7 · answered by honeybee0420 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋