how improtent is giving orel to a relationship.i mean i never do i mean never i think its nasty
2007-02-15 14:29:04 · 15 answers · asked by mickie1108 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i can spell. im 20. but i dont want my question to be canceled so that why i spelled it funny
2007-02-15 14:36:31 · update #1
sorry im 21 and ... i just dont like balls in my face ok. it smells it hairy it just nasty
2007-02-15 14:37:47 · update #2
i dont think i have to do that if i love some one. it like saying i take it in the reend if i love someone and shouldnt have to be that way
2007-02-15 14:42:53 · update #3
I didnt give oral for a long long time, i too think it is nasty, but i do it every now and then for my bf. If you dont want to then dont, if he cares about you then it shouldnt matter. That is your own personal choice, so dont let anyone push you into it.
2007-02-15 14:33:30 · answer #1 · answered by Rosie H. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do what you feel comfortable with. I know that today performing oral sex on a guy is practically nothing anymore. That is so sad. At one time sex was kept between two people who loved each other. I'm just sorry that you already think it is nasty and it was never meant to be that way. Don't let anybody or anything make you believe you have to be or do anything you don't want to. I'm hoping you will be able to meet someone who will truly care for you in the future and all of this will be behind you one day.
2007-02-15 22:37:21 · answer #2 · answered by rubyred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in a relationship and your partner goes down on you, then you should recriprocate. If he knows you don't like to do that and is still with you, then you're lucky. Eventually, he will want it and if he doesn't get it from you, he will go elsewhere to get it.
If you love someone, giving oral won't feel that bad since you know you are making him happy. I'm sure he does things he doesn't like just to make you happy. A good relationship has compromises. This would be a big compromise on your part, but remember he compromises too.
2007-02-15 22:53:02 · answer #3 · answered by insidehomerun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never have to do what you don't feel comfortable with or dislike. If a guy truly cares about you, it won't be an issue. Although I would have to say that most guys prefer it. When you find that special someone, you may change your mind. It feels good to give such pleasure to someone you really care about.........................
2007-02-15 22:40:44 · answer #4 · answered by artutina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on who you're in a relationship with, I guess. Personally, I like it, but I would imagine that there are guys who don't. Sounds like you need to pick a guy who either doesn't like it or doesn't care one way or the other.
2007-02-15 22:33:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's okay, my ex was so huge that I could not get it in my mouth, I really like doing it now with my husband. Give it a chance, maybe someday u will like it.
2007-02-15 22:33:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is up to you. If you don't like it, you shouldn't have to do it. No offence but because of your lack of a spell checker, I hope I answered the right question.
2007-02-15 22:32:51 · answer #7 · answered by redman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u shuld probably wait until ur ready 2 give a little oral. Me and my ex-girl discussed the same thing and we agreed that she wuldnt give me oral. SO basically its a mutual argeement.
2007-02-15 23:25:50 · answer #8 · answered by Josh D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
based on your spelling, I don't think you're old enough to be doing it anyway, so just live your life and be young and don't worry about stuff like that yet!
2007-02-15 22:31:45 · answer #9 · answered by F.J. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound very young. You're opinion will probably change as you get older. I used to think it was gross, too.
2007-02-15 22:33:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋