shes not going to leave me but wonts me to tell her me why; i realy dont why i did it. what should i say? she wonts me to find a solution to our problem and i have no clue what to do. please help me.
2007-02-15 14:26:03 · 20 answers · asked by nicc_moore 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why would you cheat on her in the first place.
2007-02-15 14:28:33 · answer #1 · answered by derek-timm@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude you are really lucky that she decided to stay. you have to understand why you did it in the first place. thats the hard part too.. and if you were drunk that is NOT an excuse. the best solution really honestly is just to take a break for right now. as much as it sucks, you need to. you arent going to solve your problems unless you understand why you did? do you really want to be with your girlfriend? and how can you make it better than it was? either that. or stay together and work through it together. dont you do all the work (even though you are the one that made the mistake). do it together. talk it out. understand each other.
good luck
2007-02-15 14:30:50 · answer #2 · answered by Samara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt have cheated, it wont be the same now. Give her the respect and let her go. You want to tell her why....tell her you were selfish and only thought about yourself. That is the only reason why someone cheats. Your messed up for cheating. Sorry
2007-02-15 14:30:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth=you are not mature enough to be in a relationship & she needs some self esteem of her own,which if she had an ounce of she'd have left you w/ your pants hanging around your ankles where they were when she caught you.......Please @ least wear a glove since you're hopping from ho to ho....don't spread the stds you probably have
2007-02-15 14:36:14 · answer #4 · answered by weezie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one i think she should dump you because once a cheater allways a cheater and if you try love her u would of never cheated on her in the first place. when u are with someone u are with that person. it is a thing called trust and i think she will have trust issuess with u and i dont think she could ever trust u again because it will allways be in the back of her mind how u cheated and hurt her
2007-02-15 14:32:59 · answer #5 · answered by crystal w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off learn to spell. you want to be smart for your girl right?
Secondly, if you really don't know why you did it, you are lying. OF COURSE YOU KNOW WHY, YOU WERE HORNY.
That being said, just sit down and explain THAT to her. Whether or not she chooses to leave you is up to her. But, if she doesn't, you had better think twice about exactly what kind of woman you have there. Seems to me she is pretty damn special if she is going to give you a second chance.
2007-02-15 14:29:56 · answer #6 · answered by royalpainshane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well possibly you were looking for something you subconsciously want in a girlfriend, but your girlfriend doesn't have to offer. Think about the person you cheated with, what does she have that your girlfriend doesn't. Share your thoughts with her, but don't be harsh and hurt her feelings.
2007-02-15 14:32:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well aparently this means that theres a reason u cheated on her.U need to sit down and think.If u luv her then ur stop cheating on her.Tell her u where confused and u dont know why u did it.If ur truly going to stop cheating on her cuz u luv her then buy her gifts and tall her ur sorry and u dont know y u did.If u wanna get back with her but u feel ur going to cheat then dont get back with her cuz ur only hurting her!!! GOOD LUCK beleive me cheating will hurt u more then the person ur cheating on!!!
2007-02-15 14:34:20 · answer #8 · answered by stacy_diva_girl619 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can tell ya why u done it....you were thinkin bout yourself and NO ONE else. you need to learn to keep it in your pants, and shes crazy for stayin with you, i would have let u go already..no offense or anything cuz i dont know you, but hey, you asked! be honest, tell her u wanted a NEW piece of booty, thats why people cheat...they arent satisfied with what they have so they go get it somewhere else. i still say shes crazy for NOT leaving
2007-02-15 14:30:29 · answer #9 · answered by dixiegurl6988 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always an underlining reason why somebody cheats. even if it is a small one. Think of anything that is missing from your relationship, missing from you, resentment.
2007-02-15 14:29:41 · answer #10 · answered by faith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋