so many of the girls in my school (especially the more popular ones) like hese guys that are jerks to everyone and dont treat them well, then they complain about how they act, even tho theyre always like that. i cant figure out why girls dont want to go out with guys like me and my friends who would actually treat them well and care about more than just getting laid.
p.s. this is a serious question not just complaining cuz it makes no sense
2007-02-15 14:17:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not talking about good guys against bad guys im talking about a guy who will still do what the girls need and want but wont treat them like ****, which i see a lot....theres a difference
2007-02-15 14:27:54 · update #1
again, this has nothing to do with bad a s s guys and nice guys. i could and would kick someones a s s for my gf, but appaently its harder getting one if ur not an a s shole
2007-02-15 15:08:57 · update #2
yeah - I'm a girl and have always liked guys with a bad edge but that's coz I'm not attracted to the nice ones.. they don't have that same spunk and edge in bed. and just want some one who seems like they can protect us,rather than a wimp. like if needed they can beat some ones *** and wont just be standing there helpless. and what you cant have is always attractive to you right? so the more the guys show they dont care and have that attitude going , you tend to want them so much more.
now the deal is i did learnt my lesson because i use to get caught up with these kinda guys and not the nice ones and use to land up being emotionally unsatisfied and then some one on yahoo answers helped me oout and told me this - check out my question and the answer i got for it-
Q : I love this guy who has attitude pasted on his damn face! How do I make this guy reeli like me?
ANS : Would you still like he's attitude in fifty years time when he's screaming at you, wanting to know where his dinner is? And wanting to know why the house is in such a mess after he's been at work all day? And you're fed up, past it and exhausted? Skint, in need of some good loving' and he isn't able to give it to you. And your teenage kids talk to you like you're a piece of c rap. Will you look back and think you'd do it all again? Leave the bad boys alone; go get a nice young man who will respect you.
this was a light bulb moment and now i just want a sexy ''nice'' guy !
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2007-02-15 14:46:27 · answer #1 · answered by spin spin sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think those girls have self esteem issues. These girls might appear all confident on the outside but I'm sure there are underlying issues because they tolerate guys who treat them like trash. I used to tolerate that garbage, I've grown up and have no use for jerks. I truly believe we teach people how they should treat us. Women and girls who allow men to treat them like crap are ruining men. Men have figured out that if this one woman will not tolerate his bull another woman will accept him with open arms. This Yahoo answers is full of women who stick with abused men, just check it out. I might be myself a lot on Friday nights, but I won't tolerate garbage from a man. I love to meet a good guy who loves and respects me, I'll just keep looking I don't want a jerk.
2007-02-15 14:24:49 · answer #2 · answered by Martini Babee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 05:31:13 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all girls like jerks; and probably more than focussing on that if you are looking for someone nice for yourself and your friends; start looking somewhere else.
This girls are not very smart but there is always more behind their attitudes; can be many things.
As long as you do not treat any girl like that then it is good.
2007-02-15 14:26:24 · answer #4 · answered by Pandora 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay lets see here let me put it this way i went out with a sweet sensitive guy and yes he treated me well but they kinda get boring. Girls want a guy thats not afraid to give her a pat on the *** once in a while. and we just find it very sexy. In all seriouness we just want in this order 1. excitement 2. passion 3. and yes we want to get laid as well. Bad boys are just hot. Good boys are boring.
2007-02-15 14:24:04 · answer #5 · answered by tiffers 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
young girls are stupid. probably most of them are influenced by their friends who thinks jerks are cool and hence pretend like they love jerks. teenage girls would do anything their friends do. if their friends start smoking, they would do that too. if their friends start having sex, they would do the same thing. that's why so many girls lost their virginity when they were young (pressure from friends and boyfriends).
trust me, when you grow up, you'll laugh at these girls. don't worry, you'll find a nice girl who loves you just the way you are.
2007-02-15 14:27:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
those girls r stupid. other girls though, r good and nice and everything, but guys go out with the suckish ones. y is that?!?!?! cuz ppl can b soo stupid.
2007-02-15 14:20:38 · answer #7 · answered by book worm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋