I am friends with this guy, who has a girlfriend, the thing is we like each other. I need some advice?

Question

Well, we have the same class an its so obvious that he likes me an I like him. I told him I feel that we should keep it as friends b/c he has a gf, but he was telling me he like me etc. So, I text him sayin friends only, but I do care alot 4 him. Well guess what his gf saw the message an left a nasty voice mail by using his phone. So I called him telling him i didnt appreciate her doing that, that to tell her we are just friends. I mean she must not of read the part that i just wanna be friends b/c he has a gf, it kind pissed me off. bc she said " not to call him an she dont care what we do at school an that he wont be calling me no more. So i asked him was this true that he doesnt wanna talk to me an he says " Did I say that, an I said no. So he then tells me then dont worry about it, I mean she's mad but yet she's texting guys she use to have sex with an letting guys take her pic, an is fighting this girl over some guy. My friend told me this, I mean we are friends, what to do?

Answer 1

Sounds really confusing - so I would just leave them to it!
If this guy REALLY likes you he will break up from his girlfriend and go out with you. If he had been honest in the beginning all of this would have been avoided. I would steer clear until he decides what he wants.