I have a boyfriend outside the philippines,hes an american and we still communicate via email.and he said that he will visit me once a year,actually he'd been here twice.Do you think his love for me will not gone eventhough were too far from each other?
He does'nt even call me, he just want both of us to email each other.Do you think this kind of relationship that we have will still work?please clear my mind,i do really love him.and I already give my self to him......thank you!!!!
2007-02-15 14:06:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Any realtionship can survive.............no matter how distant.......but there are 2 things whch are very necessary and that are....TRUST and PROPER COMMUNICATION........
If these 2 things are at place then every realtionship will be successful
2007-02-15 14:10:43 · answer #1 · answered by summeravi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lets just say long distance relationships are hard and only time will tell. If he doesn't want to talk over the phone and only via e-mail sounds kind of odd to me. I think you would be better off finding someone closer to home. Maybe just keep in touch with him. But i think a relationship needs be somewhat physical to work because part of knowing how you truly feel is body language not what the say. Go by what they do! Good luck!
2007-02-15 22:15:22 · answer #2 · answered by tiffers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why doesn't he want to call you? Because he's e-mailing several more just like you? How will you bond with someone you have never seen. He says he loves you and you him? Maybe a relationship can start out that way, but I think for it to be sincere you'd have to know each other and that's not truely possible on e-mails. Some people do that sort of thing for kicks ya know. Keep on being friends but seek out healthy face to face relationships.
2007-02-15 22:12:20 · answer #3 · answered by ladybugjan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he really likes you, he wants to email because its cheaper for him and will allow him to save money. Ask him what you really want to know ask him if he loves you and tell him if you love him. It better to be straighforward and honest in a relationship because the key to any relationship is communication. Take care Heather
2007-02-15 22:11:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes. I don't think long distance works. You don't really know how he thinks, and you probably can't tell him all that's happening in your life either. If you want this to work, you have to step up. Call him, see him often or something. But staying this way, I don't think you'll ever be more than friends.
2007-02-15 22:11:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a Thai girlfriend. I started out emailing her, but now I call her too. The phone calls cost a lot but she is worth it.
Unless he is VERY poor, he should have enough money to phone you from time to time. You tell me- is he Very Poor, or just Not Serious?
2007-02-15 22:12:26 · answer #6 · answered by Alan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both want this relationship to last it can. If he loves you and you really love him you'll find a way to make it work.
2007-02-15 22:10:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the best thing for u to do is tell him how u feel and ask him if u think its working with him and tell him that if hes gonna cheat then its over
2007-02-15 22:16:31 · answer #8 · answered by lothargrl_4_life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he love you for that.......and that kind of relationship will work even his not calling you on the phone..........still you have communications! so dont worry.
2007-02-15 22:14:07 · answer #9 · answered by lucylen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋