My husband passed away 5 months ago, and we had a service for him at home. The question is do we have one for him were his family live -3000 miles away. His family has not keep in touch with his children or me. In fact his mother call 1 week after he passed to tell me she was hurting and that I am out of her will. My husband did n't leave me anything but bills and the trip would be expensive. My husband's father died one year before him and we went to the services (very costly). Do I have a service for them or just let it pass? at the time they said that they could not make it out for services, so I offered to have one back there.They don't seem to care ,they just want to move on.
2007-02-15 14:01:58 · 2 answers · asked by greg m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I am so sorry to hear about your husband. You did the best you could, by offering to have a service for his family. By what your'e saying, they don't seem too interested, so I would just let it pass.
2007-02-15 21:54:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to bear this. You had one service, She couldn't make it so there's nothing to stop fer from having a private memorial service for him where she lives, you don't even have to go or have anything to do with it. I'd probably mak the effort to suggest this to his mom, then just move ob with your life, after all you married him, not his mother so you don't need her anyways.
2007-02-16 01:43:13 · answer #2 · answered by al b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋