my brother is a sophmore in HS and he had his first gf for about a month. Then she told him she was having second thouths about them cuz they didnt know each other that well yet. Even thought wat i heard about her and even from all of her friends they all think she is a "guy hopper" or as one calls her a "hoebag". My brother is over it but not 100% yet. I tried to tell him that the first break up the the thoughtst. I told him as simple as i could the first cut is the deepest. is this a good way to explain to him the first gf breakup is the thoughest to swallow.
2007-02-15 13:57:37 · 8 answers · asked by saintssuck51 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im mean wut can u do.
i mite encounter this problem myself bcause my brother is also a sophmore in HS.
if it were me i would want take a long walk
2007-02-15 14:03:48 · answer #1 · answered by the.journey.is.the.reward. C.P. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First break ups are usually the most difficult to handle, some times. It is a tough blow for him, but hopefully he will get over it. Young guys are always so sure that "she" is the right one, and do tend to not listen very well. Give it time, let him experience the loss. You might want to encourage him to seek out other girls, or to put more time into other activities. Let time takes it's effect on him.
Actually he may not truly forget her for some time to come. I know this from personal experience. If she is as you have heard that she is, what does he think of that? Is he interested anyway, in hopes to have her as well, or does it turn him off?
2007-02-15 22:07:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, that's a good way.
He needs to get over it in his own way.
You can also tell him that thats going to be 1 girl in a whole lifetime of girls. Tell not to sweat it too much, and go have some fun and do stuff like he would normally do with his guy buddies.
Telling him she's a ho-bag is definitely not a good thing to say to him. It will actually mess with his self esteem.
Give him some time, but watch out for signs of depression like if his personality takes on a weird quirk, he obesses over something, his grades drop, or he misses simple appts. If that happens he needs to get some professional help out of his slump.
2007-02-15 22:06:04 · answer #3 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes is always is because its his first time dealing with a breakup or finding out that he was not as cared for as he wanted to be and he is upset that he was used. Tell him you love and care about him and that things will get better soon. Take care Heather
2007-02-15 22:01:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all ur spelling tough wrong and second of all yes the first cut is the deepest so yes that's howd ill tell him
2007-02-15 22:01:41 · answer #5 · answered by lothargrl_4_life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that is a good way to tell him.
2007-02-15 22:01:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep good answer to tell him i would tell my brother the same thing
2007-02-15 22:02:06 · answer #7 · answered by michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure thing
2007-02-15 22:05:37 · answer #8 · answered by weezie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋