my really good guy friend is so sweet. i have a major crush but he doesn't know (or i don't think!). he always meets me after class and walks me to brunch. then he walks me to my next class. at lunch he always walks over to our table and talks to us. we always end up in a long conversation. and we have our last period together. we sit directly across the room and he flirts and talks to me. today he came up and was like, what are you doing this weekend? i said "nothing much. i'm going to be so bored!". he said "is there any way you can talk?" and asked for my email. i gave it to him. after class every day he walks me out, usually asking if i need help carrying anything.
a few girls suggested that he likes me...but i'm not sure. do you think so? and about the email, when should i email him? that was at school today, is tonight ok? i don't want to seem anxious. but what is important to me is i want to make sure our friendship lasts, instead of having a 2 week relationship. thanks! :)
2007-02-15 13:50:38 · 14 answers · asked by j c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I definitely think he likes you. Unless he's a player. But you did mention how he was really sweet, so I say go for it!. I'm not trying to be negative, I actually think it's really cute what's going on here, lol, but 8th grade relationships don't really last. First of all, he's going to high school very soon, and he's going to realize he didn't know anything back then. I'm not saying you might not be a cute and nice girl, but he might just find some other girls. And guys always have a wandering eye, so they are very tempted to flirt with a lot of girls at the same time. Even if he's nice and everything. Once kids get to high school, they break up, and they realize they never knew what they wanted. And even in high school, they STILL don't know what they want. Trust me. I see people breaking up all the time. I think you SHOULD email him, but tell him that you'd rather spend more time getting to know him and wait till high school to see what happens. Besides, you might end up liking another guy, too! :]
2007-02-15 13:57:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you this... not every relationship last BUT i know a couple who started off a little like you but they were in 7th grade.... he took the chance and asked her out... finally after a year (when they were in the eighth grade) she said yes... Not long after her family moved out of state and they were force to have a long distance relationship... they last throughout their high school years and about a year and a half into college they decided that they cant take the long distance no more and got married.... now after 12 years together, they still love eachother very much..... so to answer your question... anything is possible IF both partner are willing to make it last.... good luck
2007-02-15 13:58:42 · answer #2 · answered by molly_tony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm also in love with my really good guy friend. Except he's going out with another girl :(.
But here it's absolutely OBVIOUS he ADORES u girl!. I think u should e-mail him not tonight but tomorrow morning. Go 4 it, chick!. There's NO AGE 4 LOVE, everybody has a right 2 it, and a romance is absolutely beautiful.
My best wishes,
oxox.
2007-02-15 13:59:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I can confidently say he likes you. Be a little coy and let him send the first email then answer him back. It's about time he asked you to go out with him so be sweet and he will soon.
2007-02-15 13:55:08 · answer #4 · answered by smilingtalker_au 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so trust me after you graduate from middle school and enter high school everything changes so I don't think it lasts but I might be wrong if the guy you are with really loves you than yeah It may last even in High school.
2007-02-15 13:55:11 · answer #5 · answered by Vicz101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say he likes you, and he's probably waiting by his computer to get an email from you... just email him and see what happens. You can definitely stay friends with him, but an actual relationship in 8th grade hardly ever lasts.. I'm still friends with my "boyfriends" from 8th grade and I'm 22, so you can definitely be friends with them... but most likely not romantically..
2007-02-15 13:56:01 · answer #6 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Reason why is because people want satisfaction. Guy wants sex, Girl wants materials and money. Also people don't really know what they want. That guy might be looking at you.... But he also might be trying to make himself cross-eyed by looking at another girl. It's a nice question though.
2007-02-15 13:59:04 · answer #7 · answered by King James 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah he sounds like a really sweet loyal guy, and def. sounds like he likes you!
and as a matter of fact, although most 8th grade relationships dont last, my neighbors have been together since they were in middle school to! so theres one case!
2007-02-15 14:00:31 · answer #8 · answered by Cecilia L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time , NO
2007-02-15 13:53:48 · answer #9 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just go out with him, take advantage of this right now. u just have to know... it probably wont work out. now with that said, u should ttly email him!!! just b like, i was ttly bored, and then i remembered when i told that to u, and then i remembered ur email......so here i am. idk, try sumthing like that. good luck@@!!!
2007-02-15 13:58:14 · answer #10 · answered by book worm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋