Im going to be 18 and my boyfriend asked me to get married and I said yes.. Well know im regreting it and I dont know what to do.....Please HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-15 13:49:05 · 4 answers · asked by viry 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him you're having some second thoughts. You don't have to break up with him. You don't even have to call off the engagement if you don't want. Just say it feels overwhelming and you'd like to take it slow - have a long engagement. Tell him you think it would be a good idea for you to finish your college degree before getting married. See where things go from there.
2007-02-15 13:57:06 · answer #1 · answered by LX V 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you regretting it? don't you love him? first, you have to ask yourself whether or not you love him. because marriage is a huge thing. people only get married when they're sure they want to be with each other forever.
i'm not questioning about your age. love can happen anytime. my aunt got married when she was 18 and had her baby when she was 20 and they're still happily married. so age is not really an issue.
you have to be sure about this. if you're sure you love him, then get married. if you're not too sure about this, just say no. if you don't love him and get married anyway, it's gonna end up in divorce. you don't want to waste your time with this crap.
2007-02-15 13:56:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well getting married at 18 may be too fast..but u have to think of the future....ask urself questions like if u are finacially stable/ can u support urself....things u want to do:school?work? think through those and ask friends and family and also ur bf about what they think ...then u can really say ur choice without regretting later on...if u decided to change your choice.tell ur bf that..and if he doent respect ur chioce..then u dont need someone like that in ur life
2007-02-15 14:00:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you said yes dosent mean you have to get married tommorow. you can be ingaged for as long as it takes for you to see if hes the one, and in the meantime you both know your serious and everyone else knowes your both taken.
2007-02-15 14:00:54 · answer #4 · answered by nicole l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋