Talked to this guy for about 6 weeks, he's been really "busy" @ work the last couple of weeks, which I can understand, 'cuz I'm extremely busy @ wk and not able to talk, text, anything. But, on the weekends, he's too "tired" to talk... Ok, so we're just talking but he's stringing me along... sent me a Valentine text/pix yesterday, and then too busy to IM... I'm sick of this sh**... what u all think? Do I expect too much with someone I'm just talking to?
2007-02-15 13:48:43 · 9 answers · asked by goddess1 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
i have met him in person and we were both very attracted to each other... we don't live in the same city so we've been calling, chatting/IM and texting. He wants me to come see him next month but there's no way if he's acting like this right now.
2007-02-15 13:58:57 · update #1
It doesn't seem like he's down.
It was fun at first, but it doesn't seem to him that its worth the effort.
If everytime you talk to him, all he can give is excuses- take the hint.
2007-02-15 15:38:59 · answer #1 · answered by Julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, I agree, hes stringing you along. You arent stupid, you know he is chatting to you for a reason...he just doesnt want to take it any further....I think he knows you want more than friendship from him and is playing hard to get. If I were you, I would forget about him....hes playing games with you. If he were serious he would make the effort to be with you. Hes either a real user, or very ugly and is afraid to meet with you.....lol, have you met him in person? Whatever the case, if you havent met with him in person and its only chatting, then it is obvious he doesnt want it to go any further. Find someone who is ready for a relationship.
2007-02-15 13:56:22 · answer #2 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him about it. Be direct from the beginning. Don't waste time with guesswork and BS, and don't expect men to take hints. Just be honest,clear and direct. Tell him how you feel, and ask him what can you expect? Ask him what is fair (in his opinion) and go from there.
Best of luck
2007-02-15 13:55:49 · answer #3 · answered by Consuming Fire 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nahhh forget about him, this has been going on for too long, kinda sounds like a guy I know right now. Just drop him and find a guy who has and makes time for you.
2007-02-15 14:08:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't have any idea what you've talked about, but if you happened to mention you want to meet his parents, or him meet your parents,I'd say you're moving too fast.
2007-02-15 13:56:20 · answer #5 · answered by johN p. aka-Hey you. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Expect Nothing...
2007-02-15 15:30:25 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Albritton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are sick and he is busy.Better not develop a relationship based on frustrations and neglect.
2007-02-15 13:58:31 · answer #7 · answered by kalabalu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is probably just not too into you ... give it some space and see what happens ... meanwhile theres other fish in the sea ..
2007-02-15 13:51:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey.. if you want to meet him, just tell him.
2007-02-15 13:56:24 · answer #9 · answered by Think Richly™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋